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Ok, most here at one point or another has or had a bff of the opposite sex.

I am having a big problem. My friend is my neighbor and we grew up together, we are friends and thats it. The problem is that everyone else around the place seems to think otherwise.

Here is the issue, I have been down this road before. Several times. For some reason, I tend to make friends with women easier than with guys. I always find myself on the defense.

Do I tell these people to fly to fk, or do I protect myself by breaking off the friendship?

I cannot believe I am even considering this. The way I see it, there are two options. Leave it all alone and let everyone around think me and my friend is a slut, or just cut all connections, and let everything go back to normal.

ugggggg. Fking loose, loose situation. Either way, I loose.
Posted on 11/07/09, 01:11 pm
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Reply #11 - 11/09/09  1:43pm
" I think you're making the right choice keeping the friendship.

I love your avi cartoon by the way, made me giggle! "
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Reply #12 - 11/10/09  2:02pm
" remember dont let others control your behavior! "
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Reply #13 - 11/10/09  2:36pm
" BR,
Im like u, ive always had male friends. I seem to get along w them better. I grew up a tomboy so i think that is y.
Dont worry bout what others think, screw them (not literally unless u want too) LOL
Keep ur friends.

Love to u
Cathy "

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