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my boyfriend loves kinky sex and into bdsm he likes to be dominated and i always say i will try it but when it comes time to he whines and complaines about this or that and i just get irritated and is like forget it the question i have is i have never really dont it myself and he tells me dont listen to him but i am not a man and i cant fight him like i am one just to do what he wants me to. i just need help on techniques on how to get so that he cant move ive tried tying him up but he always gets loose so i cant even prepare right because it always go wrong is there anyone out there that would be willng to coach a novice like me ?
Posted on 10/24/09, 12:10 am
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Reply #11 - 10/29/09  12:40pm
" Lucilu~

I dated a woman that was a dom at one point and it surprised me to learn that a lot of times sex isn't involved in being a dom. Anyways, have fun this Friday night and remember... there's more than one way to skin a cat. lol "
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Reply #12 - 10/29/09  7:31pm
" Hit google, do your homework, get a few books, this is about a lot more than kinky sex. You need to find out what he wants & needs & how to give it to him.
People start S&M for the sex, but stay for the catharsis. "
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Reply #13 - 10/30/09  9:18am
" lucilu... I'LL WAIT FOR YOU!!! :) "
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Reply #14 - 10/30/09  11:09am
" I love to dominate with women but damn....that is sounding like fun after all. Maybe I need to find me a good Domme and let Her have Her way with me. :) "

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