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My wife have orgasm/ but this man can't.
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I am a man who been married for 7 years. I can have sex for two hours and have no orgasm. My wife on the other hand can have 1 or 2. I always feel like I'm almost there but never arrive. I know it is weird because it usually the other way around. My wife isn't tight enough for me. When I jerk off, no problem there. I can cum in 1 or 2 minutes when i jerk. But with my wife I can't. It is not really enjoyable at all. I don't know I am so focus to have an orgasm that I jinx myself or if this is a real problem. Can anyone help me. I desparately wan't great sex with my wife.
Posted on 10/11/09, 07:10 pm
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Reply #1 - 10/11/09  7:22pm
" Try getting your wife to do Kegel exercises, this can help strengthen the muscles around the vagina. Here is a link.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/k...

If this works there are benefits for both of you, you will be able to cum and your wife's orgasms will be more intense. "
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Reply #2 - 10/11/09  9:25pm
" Ok try different positions cause...certain ones make them tighter. Like if she is on her belly with her legs together... instead of open doggie style...or even with you on top and her legs crossed around your back.
I am also able to go long periods before I cum and some of my girls in past would start out tight but after a couple hours...they would get loose...so we experimented with positions that closed them up more. "
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Reply #3 - 10/11/09  10:52pm
" it may help if she held ur dick and guided it in and out..just a thought.. "

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