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Ok, here's the deal - I need to know what you think, especially the men. Recently, well the past three months I have been the one to initaite sex with my boyfriend. I drop hints here and there, but decided not to intiate it the last three weeks to see if he does (its been an excrutiatingly painful wait...). Well he hasn't. I randomly asked if he has jacked off recently and he had... automatically I'm wondering whats wrong with me. But he's gaining weight and I bust must ass and run at least a mile and a half daily. He used to not be able to resist me, and in all honesty, I used to be more of a vixen... He has a jealous streak and prefers not to be around people so I sorta eliminated my social life, including girlfriends, to help him cope, but now I'm becoming a bit resentful. I feel like I deserve to feel pretty and the attention that goes with it and he won't give it to me. Maybe he's started to take it all for granted? I know part of the reason he fell for me was because of the attention... HELP!
Posted on 08/09/09, 04:08 pm
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Reply #21 - 10/29/09  11:26am
" I think there has to be more than the sex as everybody says..not having sex for 3 weeks is a long time... and the fact that he jerks off, and not even try and get some from you is strange too. Dont ever abandon your friends... they are apart of you, whether you/he/whoever else like it or not. thats a little too much control. Your cute enough and the gym keeps you firm n trim so u wont have any problems finding a better man...

P.S. You dont want your daughter to have the wrong concept of a healthy relationship. "

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