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When my husband and I decide to stop the halfway stuff and actually do it, should I give myself an enema with just water first so he doesn't get any poo-poo on his penis?

What about colonic cleansing? Is that better than an enema for cleaning out one's anal area?
Posted on 07/10/08, 02:07 pm
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Reply #11 - 07/15/08  3:19pm
" Personally I do an enema take a long shower and then make it seem like it is "my idea" for him to go there. He gets so excited about it. Plus knowing that there is no way he can get anything on him helps me relax and just enjoy the moment. Use some good lube and definelty make sure he cleans up before going back to vaginal just because of infection. Good luck and ENJOY "
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Reply #12 - 07/15/08  3:39pm
" Ok, having not done this, but given the impression (wrong one by the way) that wife wanted too, I did a lot of research. Condoms are recomended (just cause of the chance of fecal matter getting onto/into his penis). Most articles I came across recomended a water based lube....and to be very liberal with it. Go slow......or rather, go VERY slow until you are comfortable with him being in their and things move a little more smoothly. Make sure he knows to not go like a jack hammer too....that location has thin linings that can be damaged (And that would end it very quickly for both of you). And it was already mentioned, but make sure you go from front to back with the insertion....not back to front. Having regular intercourse and then switching to anal is fine, but don't go from vaginal, to anal, and back to vaginal unless he has really cleaned himself off.....or you can hop in the shower and clean him off. :) Either way, I hope you enjoy the time. :) "
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Reply #13 - 07/15/08  5:56pm
" CAPTAIN WINKY!!! ROFLMAO!!! He calls his "member" Little Kenny, which is not to imply that it IS little. I assume it is average, and certainly quite sufficient for our activities!

Anyone else a "Coupling" fan? The LEGENDARY PATRICK MATILAND WITH HIS HUGE, VERGING ON BALANCE PROBLEM, CAPTAIN WINKY! HE CALLS IT "JUNIOR PATRICK!"

And my Ladyplace is known as "The First National Bank Of Sexy Love."

Oh, my goodness me!

THAT WAS NICE! WASN'T IT BOYS AND GIRLS!

Does the term Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld of the Alexander Institute ring a bell for anyone? He hosts several of their tasteful but fully explicit, erotic DVD's. Now, a host or hostess of "educational" DVD's about sex doesn't need to be Mr. or Ms. Stud, but they should not be well, very homely, with HUGE EARS AND THEY SHOULD NOT WEAR THE UGLIEST TIE KNOWN TO HUMANKIND! At least not in my opinion! "
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Reply #14 - 05/23/09  9:57am
" I had anal sex with a woman for 9 months. We used a heavy duty condum and "Astrolube" brand lubricant. It is not waterbased and very slippery. "
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Reply #15 - 05/25/09  12:25am
" Man, I'm sure anal feels better without a condom, but, even if there were no STDs, I wouldn't trust anal without a condom. Too easy to pass poop through the pecker into the balls and bladder...guaranteed urinary tract infection or possibly even testicular cancer later on down the line. The butt-hole is a tighter entry-way than the pussy for sure, and there's bound to be some tearing and bleeding of the colon walls too, even with lube. Trojan makes a great Extended Pleasure condom that appears pretty sturdy...can withstand the "rigors" of anal... "
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Reply #16 - 08/26/09  1:16pm
" B4 i have intercouse with my partner I do use an enama just to make sure im cleand out it helps both parties enjoy the action. Condoms is you and your partners decision. As long as you use comon sense I think you both will have an exceptionl time. Enjoy "
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Reply #17 - 09/25/09  4:36pm
" My wife just takes a shower and makes sure everything is good. I have never used a condom with her for anal and I never had poo on my boy and no other problems, especialy testicular cancer "
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Reply #18 - 10/08/09  6:33pm
" Just make sure you poo before. No cleansing necessary, other than wiping up really good when you poo anyway. Lots of lube. That's it. "
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Reply #19 - 10/08/09  8:48pm
" garden hose up the ass for half hour..poop for 2..then you can roll "

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