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She tells me what she's doing with other guys?WHY?
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She called me. We talked a bit. Then she said out of nowhere. (So how many girls have flirted with you since we've been apart?) I said. Why would you want to know? She said it would make her feel better. So I tell her that 2 flirted with me.. Then she says 2 guys wanted to fuck her.... And they both go to the same school as I do. And I know one. And I might know the other. I want to kill them both. Why would she want to tell me that 2 guys wanted to fuck her? She said she was just being honest. But I asked who they were. She didn't tell me at first. But I just had to know. But now I'm filled with hate and jealousy. I asked her not to tell me anymore about ANYTHING having to do with other guys. She didn't do anything with them thankfully.. But damn... It just makes me hate them. If I ever saw one of them messing around with her I'd fuck up their whole life. What else am I supposed to do? Just sit back and let it slide? She still has feelings for me. And I obviously still have them for her. But I just need some ME time. So yeah... I don't know what to do. I guess I'm just venting. Thanks for listening.
Posted on 11/07/09, 12:11 am
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Reply #1 - 11/07/09  1:23am
" Stupid girl playing her games. sorry that she is hurting you. "
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Reply #2 - 11/07/09  1:57am
" I don't know your whole situation however I really don't see where it makes any sense for her to tell you about these two other fella's. Sounds like to me she needs to grow up a bit and besides how do you know this event really took place and if it did how do you know for a fact it was the guys coming on to her? Perhaps it was her coming on to them or maybe it never happened at all. It might just be her way to get your attention the point is behaving that way is immature and indicates she is not ready for any type of relationship.

It would do you no good to involve yourself in a fight with either one of the guys when you have absolutely no proof they did anything wrong because it is a good way to land yourself in jail or screw up your life with unecessary trouble. Making a judgement or acting out of anger will only hurt you kiddo so know your facts before you jump to any conclusions. Anyway I hope you decide to be the mature one here because if you do it will in time show you the true colors of this gal. Best wishes to you:) "
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Reply #3 - 11/07/09  8:19am
" That was really unnecessary and mean for her to do.
Why would she want to hurt and anger you?
She sounds very immature.

Take a deep breath and let it go. She may be lying. "

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