What is HPV

Papillomaviruses [ Human papillomavirus ] are a diverse group of DNA-based viruses that infect the skin and mucous membranes of humans. More than 100 different human papillomavirus...

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just wondering. when my gynocologist diagnosed me with GW, she basically said in a cold unsympathetic voice It's genital warts.They're tiny, want me to take them off now?
did the treatment, stayed dead silent, and was like "is that it??"
afterwards.
i was like um.... is my boyfriend going to get them?? (been dating same guy for almost a yr) - she goes "Maybe. he should watch. is that it?" and i just nod (tears in my eyes) and she coldy leaves the room.
WTF? shoudlnt she have talked me thru it more?? i am still in shock over how cold and unhelpful she was.
has anyone experiened this before?
Posted on 10/31/09, 10:10 pm
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Reply #1 - 10/31/09  10:18pm
" some doctors have great bedside manners and some suck at it! We as patients (especially women) need to demand that doctors/their offices listen to us! Don't be afraid to speak up...After I recieved the call from my doc's office letting me know that my PAP was normal but my HPV test came back as positive..I was stunned and just didn't know what to say. After about an hour I called back and spoke to the nurse on shift...then I actually called back almost everyday for almost two weeks asking questions/concerns that I had. At first I felt guilty for "bothering" them..BUT THEN ..I could care less!! Their job is to not just see me once a year but to provide me w/ info about what's going on w/ my body and how to deal!! I'D CALL BACK HER OFFICE AND SEE IF SOMEONE COULD WALK YOU THRU THE RESULTS AND WHAT THEY MEAN. DON'T FORGET TO WRITE DOWN ANY QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU CALL SO YOU DON'T FORGET ANYTHING!!

GOOD LUCK!! "
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Reply #2 - 10/31/09  10:29pm
" i'm definitely going to write a list of questions to ask. honestly at the time, my mind went blank from her UTTER RUDENESS. you could tell she just wanted to get out of the room , it's almost like she was disgusted by me. "
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Reply #3 - 11/01/09  8:47pm
" trust me she wasn't disgusted by you..just doing what some docs do..treating a patient like a number..and assuming that since they see it all the time that I think that they forget the impact . If she continues being cold..you may want to think about switching doctors "

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