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In love with by straight BFF
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so, i'm bi and i've been in love with my best friend for a while now. like, two years, but i only realized it this year. she kissed me once a few years ago, but that was a pop kiss and it was for "proving we could handle it" purposes. then eventually (like, over the course of this/last year) i realized i was bisexual and eventually that i was in love with her. she recently found out. the thing is that she always suspected it, and thus toys with my emotions on a constant basis. she's a totally possessive best friend, but she'll say it like "Only love me" and things like that. and it drives me crazy!!! she's COMPLETELY straight and told me she'd never reciprocate my feelings, but she's still my best friend and she has been for 5 years. i could never leave her. but it's so frustrating sometimes!!! i want to touch her... to kiss her... to be with her. but it will never happen.

people say i'm obsessed with her. they told me i was in love with her before i realized it myself, but i didn't want to be considered a lesbian so i denied it. and i'm not a lesbian, i do like guys, but right now she's the only thing i love.

how do i get over her??? :-(
Posted on 11/08/09, 10:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/09/09  11:53pm
" ha im basically in the same boat except mine fucked me over twice on being more than friends and she has came back again for the 3rd time but i cant trust her and shes hurt me to much so there can never be anything either, i mean she broke my heart twice and im still hopelessly in love, idk what to tell you it sucks, Im infatuated with her but i also love her as much as family so i cant leave her either.i guess alls u can do is find someone who can take your mind off her, thats what im currently trying.
haha and by the way that "only love me" thing made me laugh mine always says "love me back" when i push her away when she trys to cuddle, its like hello i fuckin tried that and you only break my heart.
feel free to message me if you wanna talk about how much best friends suck lol "
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Reply #2 - 11/10/09  4:36pm
" well, at least your shows you affection!! uch... i find myself staring at her sometimes... IT SUCKS!!! she's so effing STRAIIIIIIIIGHT.

TT_TT *cries* "

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