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So i have this friend and i've like him for awhile now. He first 'came out' in grade 10 saying he was bi and now its that he is gay. I really like him but he doesn't know it. I don't want him to cus i value him as a friend and dont want to make thing complex. He seemed a little iffy about the whole thing at first and even at one point mentioned he isnt 100% sure he is gay.
But my question is how do i know if he is for sure gay or if it is just maybe an experimental phase? Im tired of feeling sad over him cus he is honestly one of the nicest guys i've ever met. He isnt overly feminine and you wouldn't know he was gay until someone probably told you. I just want to know if its time to let go...for real. Posted on 11/02/09, 04:11 pm |
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My opinion is that guys who are just going threw a phase or looking for some attention just say their bi, never gay because that is just a whole lot more taunting than just being bi
Hope this helps :) 
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GIRRRRRL! That boy's train doesn't run on your track!
The best thing for you to do is stand back, always be in his life as a "Friend." He may be GAY GAY or just gay, or perhaps bisexual. He may be trysexual (he'll try anything) even. But he's not going to be what you need him to be for you, today. And you need to move on. Let him discover his sexuality at his pace, on his time. I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. You seem wonderful.
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Thanks you guys. And no you didn't hurt my feelings at all. Actually you really helped. Thats just what i needed to hear. I think i knew it all along but its real when someone else actually says it. Thanks
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