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Bis in High School
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Does anybody else feel like most of the kids who claim to be bisexual during high school are just searching for attention? I think that there are true bisexuals who would date girls or boys. However, I think most teenagers just want the attention and to be able to say how difficult their lives really are. I have a classmate who claims to be bisexual but at the end of the day she always dates boys. And she pretends that she understands what its like to be part of the LGBT community. I've heard her make gay jokes... mean ones. On the other hand I have this great friend who is a bisexual but has never dated a girl. I believe she truely is bisexual because A) most of high school she was in a long term relationship with the same boy and B) when she graduated she didn't change her mind.
Posted on 10/05/09, 01:10 am
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Reply #1 - 10/16/09  2:30pm
" I feel the same way I think... I have nothing against bi people. its just in my town I dont know anyone who is gay. they all claim to be bi. and its kinda weird cause its like a group of kids who just go around dating each other. its like they have a dating schedule or something. they also make it a big deal during school and stuff. these are also the same kids who cause the most drama at school. I dont believe this is the case for all. I know some people who are genuinely for both. they identify as pansexual. or "gender blind" and sometimes I feel like they are a little more honest then the love circle at my school.... but I dont think a generalization can be made because its not always like that... "
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Reply #2 - 10/16/09  9:59pm
" I have friends who claim to be bisexual. I am surprised to be any kind of sexual. I mean really, we--most of us--are just started to experiment with any kind of sex period. I have been out with girls. Kissed one (dead FISH) and nothing happened. Now I stood across the pool from Cameron Wyeth and OMG BONER!

I think most of us would rather be straight. I would. But in this early time of my getting-to-know-my-sexuality I think I will stay away from labels just yet. My Dad said he changed his sexuality many times in his life. Wow, my Dad--gay? Oh no. But yeah, he was. Then he found my mom and well hellooooo I'm here.
Dad said sexuality was more about attraction to the feeling of LOVE than a gender. Dad said he fell in love with the emotion of love and caring and tenderness that he found in my mom. Actual sex was just a biological expression of their love for each other. Who they loved had little to do with my creation than how they loved and love today. Wow...did I write that?

I am a sexual human. That's enough. Now I'm going to masturbate. Its the safest sex around. "
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Reply #3 - 10/20/09  10:40pm
" right, so i'm bi and i know this because i've gotten turned on by girls, been kiissed by girls, had a near-sex experience with a girl, and am in love with my best friend who is a girl. however, i also have massive feelings towards a guy i've known for 4 years. i've been kissed by a guy (i was 8) and i "grew up straight" so to speak. i've had numerous close-to-love crushes on guys, but i haven't kissed one since i was eight and i've never been in a relationship with either gender. yeah.
so i know what i am.

but then there are other girls i know, such as one i've hooked up with, who claimed to be bi, then les, then bi again, but refuses to hook up with me again even though she claims she "still wants to". um, what?

so i hear you. :-)

Jo "

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