Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group

Confused,

Joking aside, your girlfriend was not very honest with you during the relationship. You may love her, but it's in your best interests to step back and weigh the positives and negatives. Ask yourselves if you are ready for a committed relationship. If you are off and on again, you're missing out on being each other's "better half," so to speak. Especially if she is asking someone else for intercourse, what kind of message is she sending to those around her. Trust is essential in any relationship, whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family bond, so you should make sure she is on good- not romantic- terms with your friends. Also, you might want to keep this off Facebook. When you post messages, they don't go away. If other people can see them they will know more of the details of your relationship than you might want to and that could backfire later on. Above all, proceed with caution. If she's going to hurt you again, taking her back might not be the best way to go. I wish you the best of luck, and I'm sorry the relationship was tough the first time. You need to protect yourself and do what is right for you. Be careful and stay strong.

Nicole :)

Thank you Nicole, I will take your advise and think about it. Then I will talk to her about what I feel. Thank you so much.
Danielle :)