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Dating Help: lesbians and bi girlies please
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o-k, so i'm 14 and in 9th grade. yeah, young, whatever. i am hoping to start dating this year, and am having a hell of a time so far. the one girl i do like, actually love and am head-over-heels for, is asexual (and i think she knows i love her). i am looking for a relationship - preferably with a girl in a grade or so above me (though i'd settle for someone in my grade). anyways, how do i go about finding a girlfriend? my area, both high school and small town, do not have a GSA, and my parents don't want me to form one, so that's out of the question. i live in a pretty small town, and am fourteen, so options like girl bars and such are out of the question. the rents have me on a tight leash; i'm like not allowed to go anywhere public on my own. what should i do? how should i try to find a girlfriend in my school? i was thinking about sports, but i'm too uncoordinated for that xD i am so lost... the one girl who is a perfect match for me is not exactly my type (xD), and though i can find someone else, i just don't know how.
and as for dating; i've never really dated. how would i go about kissing (never done it before, except with another girl as a dare, just lip to lip). and sex... early to be thinking about that, but i am ready for whenever she is. any advice for, well, finding a girlfriend, kissing, and sex? sorry... i'm like a baby to this part of life. i need help, i'm so nervous i won't find anyone before the end of high school! Posted on 10/03/09, 09:10 pm |
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Just be you, be outgoing, be friendly. In a small community like yours, being honest about your sexuality should bring the eligable girls to you, lol. But really, I was definatly the quiet 'strait' girl who followed the lesbians around. If you're comfortable and honest about who you are and what you're looking for, you'll make those around you who are not so comfortable with what they want, comfortable. If you want to talk about anything else, just message me :) 
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thats all you can do i fell in love with my best friend but i was too late and she was taken so dont be afraid just be yourself t
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Just be yourself and don't look too hard. When you aren't looking for someone to be with, someone will find you. But don't focus on finding a girlfriend too much because like you said, you are young (me too, lol). You have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of time to date and be with people. The whole scene changes once you're out of high school anyways. Good luck[:
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