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My current girlfriend and I have been dating(ish) for nearly three years and I love her so much. We split up about six months ago and now we are back together. I broke up with her because I found out she had cheated on me with a mutual friend of ours who was also my ex. It was not solely the cheating that broke my trust but that she had lied about it for two years. I dont forgive easily and I let her back in because of how much i truly love her. She was the fucking center of my universe while we were together and we were really happy but I am scared I will never be able to let her in again.
I am bisexual (which she HATES) and while we were broken up I casually dated a few people. One of them was my long time childhood friend and he made me feel so good about myself. Not only that but I felt really beautiful and I never feel beautiful with my gf she is always so competitive about our looks. I have some depression and self-worth issues that I am working on and they seemed to practically dissipate after I broke up with my gf. Anywhooo. I am so scared that I wont be able to let her back in and that I will break up with her again even though I love her more than anything. Being with other people showed me that I actually am a desirable person and I dont feel like she really values me. Idk what to do! let her back in or run away? advice!? Posted on 08/23/12, 03:36 am |
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I think you should dump her again. if she makes you feel worthless, then its worthless to have her in your life. honestly, i dont like dating bisexuals, but i dont mind them as friends. iv been hurt by to many wanting the guy instead of the girl, and having them make me feel like cause i dont have a dick, that im not good enough. but anywho,
you should dump her, shes not worth the pain. and you obviously know what it feels like to be appreciated and ....loved? if that is the word you would use. Cheating is unforgivable, you almost never heal from it. but that is my experience. dump her, look for others who think you are enough. 
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Loving someone means giving them everything you are, and everything you have. I think if she cheated on you once, what makes you think she won't do it again? You, and everyone in this world, deserves someone to love them and ONLY them; someone who makes them feel wonderful and beautiful. Even if you love her, you have to consider whats best for YOU, and what YOU want. If this guy makes you feel good like you said, choose him. But if you love her enough to give her another chance, go for it.
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God, why does this situation sound so familiar? I have some of the worst trust issues in the universe, and I hold grudges and refuse to let someone back in after they've hurt me. But anyway, I guess it just depends on how you feel. We all ask for advice when things get confusing, but in the end, we just go with our gut feeling anyway. Although, I think you should try to figure out her true feelings for you, and if she loves and cares for you as much as you do for her. And if you just feel like she doesn't, then it isn't even worth it. It's also not worth it if she makes you feel bad about yourself, because you shouldn't. No one should have to feel bad about themselves and worthless while in a relationship. She is obviously stupid for cheating on someone who loves and values her like you do. But hey, people make mistakes, and they can change sometimes. I hope it all works out for the best though! :)
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If You're Not Being Treated With Love & Respect Check Your "Price Tag." Perhaps You've Marked Yourself Down. It's You Who Tell People What You're Worth, By What You Accept. Get Off The "Clearance Rack &Get Behind The Glass Where They Keep The "Valuables." The Bottom Line Is… "Value" Yourself More.!! ツ
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