What is Fibromyalgia

Fibromyalgia (FM or FMS or Fibro) is a debilitating chronic syndrome (constellation of signs and symptoms) characterized by diffuse or specific muscle, joint, or bone pain, fatigue...

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Recommendation: Letter to People without Chronic Pain
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This letter may help your family and friends understand how you feel day in and day out. Go to this site:
http://lifeinpain.com/node/2151
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Reply #11 - 06/28/09  1:05am
" I'd like to find a letter like this for ulcerative colitis! "
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Reply #12 - 06/28/09  2:52am
" It does a good job of articulating a lot of issues, but I find it somewhat depressing and it certainly presents the worst case scenario. As a person with fibromyalgia who works full-time, volunteers, has a side business, and just started a non-profit, I can't get behind something that makes people with fibromyalgia sounds as if we're at death's door. Most people don't know i have fibromyalgia unless it comes up in the context of fund-raising for the non-profit. I have had people, when I tell them about the non-profit, look at me and honestly ask "Do YOU have fibromyalgia?"

I ride my bicycle (with motor) a couple of times a week, and just did my first week at the gym. That doesn't make me better than anyone else - it just means I've found ways to manage my pain and live well regardless of fibromyalgia. I still have bad days, and my doc is starting to give me shit about my breakthrough meds, but I refuse to "be" fibromyalgia - I'm just a person with fibromyalgia.

I guess part of my discomfort with the letter is that I don't really need anyone to speak for me. I know the science - I stay up on the research - and for every misconception I will point you to the truth. So...I have mixed feelings...I guess it might help someone who is really struggling with the right words, but at the same time, I don't think it's going to change the mind of someone who really doesn't "get it."

Just another perspective - for what it's worth. "
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Reply #13 - 06/28/09  10:53am
" Thanks for sharing, very good letter.
Gentle hugs, Sherrall "
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Reply #14 - 06/28/09  2:57pm
" i'm gonna print this out and bring it to my fm group for them. so they each can have a copy to make more copies for them selves... they'll probably want to give this to their friends and family.

THANKS! this thing is awesome! "
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Reply #15 - 07/20/09  9:21am
" Just posted it to my Facebook profile. Thank you so much for the link. "

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