What is Fibromyalgia

Fibromyalgia (FM or FMS or Fibro) is a debilitating chronic syndrome (constellation of signs and symptoms) characterized by diffuse or specific muscle, joint, or bone pain, fatigue...

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Well she pleaded guilty to attacking me and it got me only a order of protection which I wanted but that is all she wrote. All she has to do is stay away from me and making bruises and pulling people with FM's limbs is only Harassment in the 2nd degree. After she was served she went to the police with her friends and actually was able to get a warrant for my boyfriend who she has also been harassing except she had one friend go to management and say he told him that he was going to kill Debbie.(this is the person who attacked me). The management gave her the complaint and she went down to the police and showed them this and said he was also slandering her good name and harassing her. This is a load of crap. It is retaliation and the dip Judge she plead guilty for signed it against my boyfriend. she also got my boyfriend evicted by getting others in the apartment compex to say he was harassing them. She scares people so they either do what she says or completely stay away from her because she is pure evil. She is the one who harasses. He called the police on her for throwing things at his apartment and I was there. She is not scared. She could kick my boyfriends ass bad. He is only 140lbs soaking wet and he wouln't like me saying that but it is true. She was mad because he was able to get a puppy for emotional support. She got a puppy too but had to take it back because she couldn't care for it. Is there a nasty person that you know that is the neighborhood newspaper but doesn't get everything right and lies about the people she doesn't like. That is Debbie. The management doesn't care that she plead guilty and they are not evicting her just my boyfriend because so many of her friends say he destrubs the peace. There is no peace ther and it is wild. Now everyone can have dogs. He still hasn't found an apartment and he has only till Nov 30th. It hard here because unless you want to live in the inner city not many other decent places take Section 8 which is a Housing Subsidy so he can pay for the apartment for he and his son. Alot of people have been idiot that were on Section 8 and abused property so now landlord don't want our kind of people. My boyfriend can be annoying to me of course but he is a total nerd and is very quiet. He is clean, he fixes computers old ones and plays chess. He likes trains and watches old movies and loves music so he has mental health problems and tends to stay in the house. People hear Section 8 and hang up the phone. I think they should at least meet the person them decide. I am on it and my landlord is always paid on time. I haven't destroyed my apartment. When I didn't have it I had to have a roomate and had to go to eating nothing for the last week every month. He is not facing the deadline well. He is disassociated and not really looking. I have been doing it over Craigslist and he says he will start this monday.Please pray for him. For this 27th when he goes to court and what he should plead. It seems if he lies he may just get a slap on the hand and he knows he isn't guilty but is afraid they will get him in real trouble. This woman is a slime. She should have to leave too, if he does. They say she is mentally ill and didn't know what she was doing well my boyfriend has outbursts and he not getting out anything for actually keeping himself together. He may lose his Section 8 if he doesn't find something and his son and he need a home. Please pray. We are not getting along but even if we do break up I don't want him to suffer. It been hard being together for ten years and realizing if he doesn't finally accept me for who I am I can't be with him. I am waiting to mull this out with him later because do I want to make him suicidal right now. No! He has never understood my FM and my depression and basically he can't take me ever being a bitch. I am a bitch who can help it being in pain so much. He says it can possibly hurt from just touching me. I told him a millon times and oh he doesn't like me having a opinion that isn't his own and having a temper. I need to be quiet well it going to have to change. Wish everything good luck.
Posted on 10/24/09, 08:10 pm
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Reply #1 - 10/24/09  9:08pm
" I'll be praying for you, your boyfriend and all who are involved. This is all very stressful and not good for you(Fibromyalgia flares ). I hope it all settles down soon. Sorry hun. "
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Reply #2 - 10/24/09  10:12pm
" Sending Prayers for you both. It's ok to still care but it sounds like it is best if you do seperate. Fibromyalgia and stress don't go well together. You have to take care of yourself first.

Hugs "
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Reply #3 - 10/24/09  10:55pm
" xxxxxoooo's & prayers "
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Reply #4 - 10/25/09  12:52pm
" I'm really brain dead today & my hands aren't working from handsewing a costume, but I want 2at least say I am so sorry you guys are going through this. There is an awesome, amazing website called www.brokenspirits.com that has a community and forums for every type of abuse/harassment you can imagine, even a family & friends of forum, most importantly the vibe there is like here - everyone posts with the best intentions & because they care.

This site literally saved my life & gave me the strength & support I needed to get away & STAY away from an abusive partner. They know their stuff & they know what it feels like. Please, if anyone is experiencing any type of abuse, check out the site, nothing to lose, all to gain. "
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Reply #5 - 10/25/09  5:22pm
" Sending you lots of prayers. Thinking of you.

Hugs Nancy "
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Reply #6 - 10/25/09  6:20pm
" Sending prayers your way that things will work out for the best for both you and your boyfriend.

Take care gentle hugs "

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