What is Female Sexual Issues
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...
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Finally got over my fears of sex
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Hi my name is Kirsten and I have been very fearful of sex. I've been with my fiancee for 4 years and we just did it for the first time like a week ago. I used to have panic attacks everytime we tried to do it and it got me real depressed. But now I've gotten over that most of the way now that I'm active. But there's something else that is bothering me...getting pregnant, I know that there's hardly a chance since my man wears a condom but there's always that small chance. I cannot bring a baby into this world for a long time cuz I need to make sure I can be a good mommy. So I'm scared of that small chance...
Thanks for listening to me babble Posted on 10/29/09, 03:10 pm |
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First of all, congratulations! Sex is just too fun and fulfilling when you're with the right person to miss out on. Second of all, have you considered birth control pills? That plus a condom makes it damn near impossible for him to impregnate you. 
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congratulations also as dannielle has said birth control pills and condoms will take away the fear and dont be afraid to try new positions or locations to have sex,shower watching tv on the floor your partner sitting inclined and you on top and mutual masturbation or by yourself but enjoy
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your story gives me hope--i am glad to know there are guys who are willing to wait for a girl to be ready and are willing to wait paitently--becuase i too fear sex
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there are always plan B or morning after pills (if you're comfortable with that).
i personally hate taking birth control pills because they make me feel like i'm PMS-ing constantly. you could supplement the condom with spermicidal lubricant -- there are dozens of products out there. different types of implants, etc. you can ask your gynocologist or just research the web on your own. however, if it makes you any less anxious, i have been having sex for years, and i get pregnant very easily, but i NEVER got pregnant when i was using a condom, ever.
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