Female Sexual Issues Support Group

i've never really thought that not having g-spot orgasms was a ''problem'' -- i always thought of them as a bonus, like simultaneous orgasms -- not something that you would expect to happen often, if ever.

This is not uncommon at all! Most women can not have a orgasm through intercourse. I myself have never had a orgasm through intercourse only through clit stimulation and it is very frustrating. But we are women and nothing was suppose to be easy. Every women is different you really just have to find what works for you. Make the guy do a lot of exploring with your body. A lot of stimulation in the vaginal. Try buying different sex toys or lubes to stimulate your women parts. But don't worry to much about it. It's so normal for females. It's just a kept secret that poeple don't talk much about! Just relax your mind and enjoy the sex with the guy your with! A lot of women tend to not relax a lot during sex. So just enjoy and have fun SAFE sex! Happy Halloween! :)

You can acctually have organsims with intercourse? I have only had one once or twice and I'm over 40 years old and very active sexually. I don't think you should worry about it.

I dont have any advice but im glad i aint the only one thta has this problem

personally i would be grateful to ever have an orgasm by intercourse alone. and yet there are some people out there who always do, or they have multiple orgasms, g-spot, female ejaculation, etc. i guess the thing is not to dwell on what you don't have and enjoy what you do have to the fullest.

Much like the other ladies here have said, it isn't an uncommon thing. I myself have only orgasmed a very, very few--like two times--during intercourse, and it was only through clit stimulation. Of course, i haven't had too much experience with letting men (I have issues in that department, haha, which is why i've found this group).

But like Spiky said, i've come to think that not having a g-spot orgasm is a "problem". It's a just a bonus. If you're able to orgasm and enjoy sex, then take full advantage of it and don't let this hinder any enjoyment you may be getting otherwise.

First of all if you'll allow me, may I educate you... The G-spot is exactly correlating to a mans prostate gland. It is actually a secretory gland that like the prostate fluid when a man ejaculates is secreted by a woman when she orgasms and before ie preejaculatory fluid. Like the prostate the G-spot is connected to your sexual organs so when a man simultaneosly has his prostate gland massaged and us sexually stimulated it is an intense orgasm like off the charts! So if you can find it it's there secreting fluid just like the prostate for a man. I guess you need to be experimenting for yourself or with you're partner to sensitize yourself to it's feeling. Just like a man can't really orgasm thru prostate stimulation, yes he can get excited, erect, but the sex organ needs direct stimulation like does your clitoris.