What is Female Sexual Issues

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time now. We hardly ever have sex anymore, maybe 2 or 3 times a month. When I complain about it he just says that he is to tired or we are to busy to with school and work in the way. I don't think 20 mins would honestly be such a big deal tho. I have never been able to have an orgasm through sex and I know this annoys him and he gets frustated and it makes me wonder if that is a big reason why we hardly ever have sex anymore. No he is not cheating either...I just wanna know if anyone has ever had this problem before, it makes me feel like crap knowing he isn't in the mood half the time or he says he just was to tired....he never turns me down or anything but I usually wait for him to make the move and nothing ever really happens.. I feel like our relationship is going to be ruined because of this...we are in our mid 20's by the way. Any advice would be great.
Posted on 10/26/09, 02:10 am
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Reply #1 - 10/29/09  1:06am
" I don't have any advise but seem to be in the same boat but he will turn me down and I agree it feels like crap. "
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Reply #2 - 10/29/09  12:18pm
" i had a boyfriend with whom we had very pretty frequent sex(daily, or 4-5 times a week minimum), but 2 years into the relationship he told me he wasn't in the mood much anymore because of stress. i was frustrated and wanted sex, but i guess i have a different attitude about intercourse than other people. the fact that intercourse doesn't make me climax means after awhile i could just take it or leave it. oral and manual are my main sexual activites, and when i need sex, it means i need orgasms, so it really doesn't matter to me if i have intercourse or not. intercourse doesn't feel more ''special'' or romantic to me -- i think that's sentimental nonsense. i am actually curious about why women who don't climax from intercourse want to have it, but maybe i'm alone in that. "
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Reply #3 - 10/29/09  1:27pm
" my guy had this issue withholding sex it was becuze i too didnt fully enjoy the sex as i should i too could climax from sex either only clitoral stimulation, what would get him in the sack is going down on him for a while and getting him intrested. "

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