What is Female Sexual Issues
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...
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my partner told me she doesn't make love to me because it hurts round her vagina if she even touches it.also its painful around that area if she gets aroused.but won't see our female doctor about it.she also said she is scared aswell of orgasms because she wee's herself.back when we use to make love she only ever did this once.also she use to have sex regulary before she met me.and she did havesex regulary with me for about 18 months.and there was no mention of pain.
is this just another excuse.it's been 6 months since she last wanted to make love.it was only 3 times last year. Posted on 07/04/09, 02:07 am |
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Alot of women wee themselves when they make love. Relaxation, weeing self, vagina farts its all part of the JOY.
It sounds like you may need to talk to someone, its agony when your partner stops making love. Esspecially when they are stuck and refuse to get help; its so unfulfilling for you. 
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It sounds to me like this is a poor excuse. If she won't see a doctor, I would be highly concerned that she is getting laid elsewhere.
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I can completely understand being afraid to go to the doctor. I have horrible dr anxiety especially when I think there is something wrong. Just because she had regular sex before she met you does NOT MEAN shes making up the "pain" now. But it is concerning because its not normal and she def needs to get to the doctor. I would have a talk with her and just let her know you are concerned for HER and not make it a sex talk at all. No one should be in pain without getting it checked. It could be something really simple and shes missing out on a great sex life by not getting checked.
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voluteer to go with her to the doc for support. I'm afraid of doc too when it comes to issues below the belt and need someone with me to make me feel at ease.
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i have told her how worried i am and she knows i will go with her to the doctors.she has visited the doctor for other gyni problems before like heavy periods .she hasn't said she's embarrassed or scred of seeing our doctor she just gets angry and tells me not right now she says she has too much going .recenty i found a site with women with similar problems so i told her the advice on there ie drink water.but she just got angry again with me.
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