What is Female Sexual Issues
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...
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Hi i'm new here but my problem is mostly with my husband. He just acts like he doesn't want me anymore. He's only 26 and it kind of hurts my feelings because it makes me feel insecure. Like it's me or something, he swears it's not me it's just that he's tired he does work alot. I don't know maybe the problem is just me. Any suggestions?
Posted on 06/29/09, 06:06 pm |
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Ouch this must hurt, hmmmm im not sure what to say. When my last girlfriend didnt want to make love id make love to myself.
Then when she saw i was quiet happy to play on my own and give her space; she soon expressed an interest. 
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That's what he tells me to do. I just don't get him really my sisters boyfriend is 58 and wants it like all the time and here i am feeling rejected and neglected.
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What kind of work does he do? Cause he may be genuinely tired? Did you gain any weight recently? Men are men(buttheads) but still.. he may have lost interest.. or he may be getting it somewhere else.. I doubt it, sounds like he is just tired.
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how about suggesting you do all the work if he's tired, or you could say, how about a quicky?
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He's a firefighter. And i haven't gained any weight i actually have lost it. Maybe he is just tired. Hopefully thats all it is. Thanks for your thoughts.
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Sorry to hear that he is not interested in sex anymore, welcome to the club. I do not know if he will ever be intersted again. Tell him that you will divorce him if he does not have sex with you. Give him a month and see what happen.
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AAwww text me I think that is a horrible Idea. Hes a firefighter which means he does hava grooling job. You definitely need to have a good talk with him and tell him how you are feeling. That him not wanting to have sex with you makes you feel inadequate. I would not threaten to divorce him just to get what you want. Try to work things out.
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Sometimes men find it difficult to talk about their own sexual health, maybe he has a problem but is embaressed to open up.
you both need your needs met why not try and have a cosy evening and see how eachothers feeling. Couples therapy?
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Loss of desire in a young man with an athletic job could mean many things: prostate issues, an infection, he's actually gay, he has someone else or that he's remembering being abused as a child. I really encourage you to STOP blaming yourself and get some counseling.
Look for a sex positive therapist that is a good sex educator. Be careful not to criticize him or hurt his feelings, the male ego can be a fragile thing and can affect performance. If a urologist says he checks out and isn't sick or suffering from an enlarged prostate, he may be eligible for a Viagra prescription which has side affects but is widely tolerated by many men. Don't underestimate psychology and its power to get to the root of the problem. Be well, and let us know how we can help. You can do this, You can find out the facts and act in a way that is in your best interest. RW
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