Female Sexual Issues Support Group

I've not been molested but I've been told my decrese in my sex disire and decrese in orgasms is due to depression. Also I took Zoloft, and that kills any desire at all so meds can play a big part.
I wish there was a miricle drug for women for this issue.

Amen to a mirical drug!!!

i dont really have any desire either i know how u feel i was molested when i was a child maybe thats what causes me to be this way im married ive been married for five yrs i have sex with my husband but i have no attraction to him at all reallyso i know what u go thru if u would like some support acdc u can email me at raylenza@yahoo.com

Yes i have to agree I was started on pain meds a few years back and my sex drive went from full to nonexisitant...which really sucked, but i have since learned to manage my depression without meds since i couldn't take not being intamite with my husband. I would talk to your doc and see if you can start another med with less sexual side effects- i know there are some out there because my doctor offered them to me...but i take enough medicine a day already..i hope you find something that works...if you ever need to talk...i am here

Me either! And what really sucks for me is that I am deeply in love. So, I either really work on this issue and try to find sexual pleasure with him, or I realize I don't need sex and that that is completely okay and I can be extremely happy and a functioning person anyway, and/or I will lose my relationship which will hurt, but I can't compromise my happiness. I can't continue to have sex and act like it's the greatest thing ever when I could really give a shit. (Who does that serve anyway?) Hurry it up and get it over with so we can go talk, paint together, watch some bad t.v., take a walk, eat, etc. I thought I was crazy so I am ecstatic right now to have found this community with others not interested or feeling sexual. I refuse to think there is something wrong with me! I want to want sex, but truth is I don't right now. I have made a commitment with my guy to do counseling and I know this is something I need to do. I am also prepared that I just might learn that I would be much happier without sex. That is terrifying because I have an opportunity to have a very strong and loving relationship.

Find out what makes you so unlovable. Is it that you are overweight? Then start going to the gym ,and that will improve your sex drive. if you do not like your body, then you will always make excuses for not wanting sex.Stop eating junk food.