Female Sexual Issues Support Group

Hi everyone,

I need some advice please. I don't know what to do, I'm at the end of my road with this one.

I've been married for 17 years, known my hubby for 22.

Sex, was always ok, but lately over the past year, he's completely lost interest. He never makes a move on me, and when I try with him, (like starting to kiss or cuddle and fondle,) he's too tired, or if its the morning, he jumps out of bed.

We have three kids, 14, 12 and 9. Sex has always been abit of an issue, but never this bad. We never cuddle or kiss or really talk.

When I have talked to him about this, he just closes up and doesn't want to talk about, and boy, I've really tried.

I've got to the stage now, where i don't bother, as I can't bear the rejection.

I don't know what to do, and I'm not the sort of person to write this, but i need help and advice.

Please suggest to me if you can, what to do.

Last time we had sex was Christmas day. Before that, probably June.

Any advice, really appreciate. I feel very unloved and alone, and also very unattractive.

I can say I've put on weight, but he says he's not bothered about that, is he just being nice. I'm loosing weight now, and have lost quite alot, but still no sex or anything.

I miss the affection and close ness of making love, but don't know what to do anymore.

Thanks, Love Noods xxx
Posted on 04/01/09, 07:04 pm