What is Female Sexual Issues

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...

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how do you know if your truly attracted to someone?? especially if its someone of the opposite sex?? I mean I like guys...like having sex with guys...well at least the 2 guys who i've had sex with i enjoyed it, but every now and then i think of a certain person (a female) and im like wow wonder what it would be like to be with her? she's not the first one i've thought about,just the one i've thought about the most and in terms of maybe an actual relationship (she's very straight though so yeah that wouldn't work would it? plus she has mental and emotional problems that would hurt me). soooooo yeah I'm Bi- k thats alright, not very surprising now is it?

something tells me stephen (my fiance)might not be to unhappy about that,i mean i really do love him and i wouldn't do anything to hurt our relationship, but what guy would be annoyed if their girlfriend wanted to bring home another girl? I think its the relationship part he'd have a problem with not the sex part therefor its off limits.

now do I tell my Fiance or do I just let this be my little secret and try not to think about it?
Posted on 09/09/09, 02:09 pm
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Reply #11 - 09/11/09  1:28pm
" that sounds like some thing my fiance would say! "
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Reply #12 - 09/11/09  1:53pm
" You know what though? I felt so much better after telling my hubby because I opened up to him and shared my thoughts even though I was embarassed to tell him. We talked it over and after a few weeks he told me I could try it if that's what I really wanted. Knowing that I had his "blessings" I don't feel as guilty. I have actually been looking for a bi-curious girl to have my first time with, but when push comes to shove, I back out and get too nervous and shy about it. So maybe I will never experience this, and that's fine. At least hubby knows about my intentions and won't be completely shocked if something were to happen down the road. "

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