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Well 80% of people who appear in porn have been abused as children, so the porn industry perpetuates that abuse and then gets people addicted to it.
Porn can be very ignorant as to what women like and show men commiting violent acts against women.
So im with you on this one.
Can a porn lover be with a porn hater? Thats for you to decide.....

You are not over-reacting. Do some research, present the facts and see how he responds. If he's willing to quit or get help quitting than great, if he's not then you have some decisions to make. You deserve to be the center of his attention and quality men know that they are blessed to have the women in their life that they have. They don't spend time daily in porn that makes their partner uncomfortable. If a man is healthy, then he focuses on healthy ways to build intimacy and closeness with his partner. Is it possible that your reaction is your own inner wisdom telling you something? I say listen to yourself. You are wise.

it is not normal to watch porn everyday and it is degrading to women. one day at work a man made a remark that i thought was crude and i said to him would you like it if someone made a remark like that to your wife or daughter for she is soomeone daughter and maybe married show some respect. i watch some porn but not the type that debases a woman mostly lesbian movies

Feel for ya sweetie. It is pretty normal for guys to masterbate and be into porn. Can totally see why it bothers you and makes you feel inadequate though, I feel the same with my husband. Can you discuss your concerns with him?

he has an addition that finaces children sex slavery. that's a fact. child abuse income finances the drug trade and drug trade is also feed by pron and strip clubs and license whore services.
so next time he visit w children in his family he is finance thier future and/or neghbour child in sex slave industry. good for him - the un edu jerk off.

ps porn addit's visulize who and what when thier dogging you, right.

how do pron stars talk full sentance, when thier mouths are full and thier voices dont viberated when being banged, surly its staged and auto dub.
what a job - carrer to vocal add words to sound track in porn movies.
There has to be actually carrer - job for sound voices for such sound tracks. maybe its the guys and girls that work for those 900 ph no business's.

I'm a female and I look at porn. It's not always an addiction, and it's not always a problem. I like good queer porn that is sex positive and the only violence is consensual such as in BDSM. If it bothers you, by all means talk to your partner. But it isn't necessarily an insult to you. I've watched porn with my girlfriend before and it's hot. At least to us. But everyone is different. If it's many times in a day, perhaps it's getting to be an issue, but porn in itself is just a place for men or woman or any other gendered people to experience arousal. As long as you're open about it and you can have a conversation. Sometimes it really does spice up the sex life, which happens to everyone at some point.

I think it's really common for men to masturbate on a frequent basis even if they have an active and extremely satisfying sex life...and some men appreciate/regular visual stimulation. I wouldn't take it personally.

my personal view of this, at least in the way i handle my own life, is similar to emthefemme's. there is definitely sex-positive porn, made by women (look up tristan taormino -- she's a feminist pro-porn activist who produces and stars in her own films). also, for what it's worth, many guys still masturbate with the same frequency whether they're having regular sex or not. to some people, masturbation and sex are separate activities fulfilling separate needs, even though they are both sexual activities.
however... if you are still personally uncomfortable with the frequency of your partner's consumption of it, you might want to examine the reasons you feel this way. if you can present your feelings and the reasoning behind them to your partner, and he is receptive and understanding and respects your feelings, maybe you can settle on some sort of an arrangement. for example, he could confine his use of porn to times that you're not around to know he's doing it. i know sometimes i am not in the mood to see my boyfriend browsing porn sites, hunting for material, even when he's not using it to gratify himself at that moment.