What is Family Issues
A dysfunctional family is a family in which conflict, misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur continually, leading other members to accomm...
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I am the oldest of 9 children 7 on my mom side and 2 on my dad side. I feel like the love I recieved growing up affects my relationships now. My mother NEVER tells me she loves me and is NEVER happy to see me. No matter how well or how bad im doing my dad always looks down on me. My aunt calls me a theive and i never steal. my grandmom says she raised her kids. And everybody has the nerve to say they dont like my husband and expects me to come to functions without him. Well i am a christian and i believe in forgiveness but how do i get past when everyone acts the same still?
Posted on 10/25/09, 03:10 pm |
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who knows but I get how you're feeling believe me..this might not be the best advice but I think you should just ignore them and just smile, your problems reminds me of my mother's problem and she just ignores them but she still loves them because they're family (but she hates them for her bad childhood) so she helps them and gives them gifts even though it frustrates her badly....remember they are family. 
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Forgiveness on your part, so you won't carry the guilt and hatred in your heart 4 what ur family did 2 you. You block your blessings from that! I went thru sexual ,etc. abuse from my 2nd oldest brother, verbal & physical abuse from mom but they are stil lhere and my dad and mark, my oldest brutha are both deceased. So jsut ignore them ,smile and keep living u cna't lose sleep over family the bible says your enemies are right in your household. thats the truth but still love them from a distance. hope it works out!
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Some people are broken or emotionally handicapped. Maybe lower your expectations of certain people, have good boundaries to protect yourself from further harm, surround yourself with good, safe people to fill you up in areas your family was unable to give to you.
Be good to yourself. Realize that those hurts were not about you. It's about them and their brokenness. God bless, Ann
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