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well i heard from danny today and he told me what a ass hole i was and called me everything but a white women because i called him out on asking other women for money so i wrote back and told him i guess you dont want to come home to me you will go live with her a gain like before he went to prison i feel like a foul and so hurt we have been together for 4 years i only had a few months before we could see each other now i dont no what to think well god bless you ladies i hope your world is better then mine right now
Posted on 11/21/08, 10:11 am |
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I am sorry sweetie! On the bright side, you can move on and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I know how hurt you must feel, and you probably still love him. Sometimes love is just not enough. I would chalk it up to a learning experiance and move on with your life. It might take a while, but the pain will be less in the end. 
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Move on. This guy simply is not worth the grief he puts you through.
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It seems that by loving someone who is locked away we are also prisoners of sorts. We get punished with high phone bills, etc. The system treats us with the same disrespect that our loved one is treated with. Well dear Neat ... Guess what ... You now can be free! You are not under any responsibility to stay with deadbeat Danny, who seems to think he is a player. You don't have to wait. You are free. You can move on and find someone who will appreciate your love and devotion. Someone who is free and can be there for you. I suggest you to through this door that he has opened for you and find happiness. We must love what a man is and not what we hope he will become.
Be strong and look out for yourself! Yes, once again I agree with Waiting and Jaysmom :) Big Hugs, RS
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It does seem like there are soo many issues with him. I hope you figure out what you need to do for you. So that you are happy, loved and not called vile names.
If you REALLY want to stay with him, then you are going to set some boundaries and let him know ...Cut the crappy talk and name calling, do not talk to you like that. Because of the age differences and maybe other issues, it sounds like you really do not trust him with your heart. Trust goes a long way to helping a relationship to succeed. In some ways I have to wonder a little if he can be trusted with your heart or not. I do know this, my hubby would never talk to me like that and I would never talk to him like that either. If someone loves you they should show it by the way they treat you. Sorry if this isn't what you hoped you would hear from us. But consider seriously do you have good that comes from your relationship with him? Good feelings? Good frame of mind? Do you feel loved? Do you feel like a prized catch by him? My hubby picks me up when I am down on self, makes me go to the doc when I need to, makes me go to bed when I am too tired to see I need to myself. Does all the good outweigh the bad with your relationship anyway? Does nothing I say phase you because your love for each other helps you thru each day?Can you not imagine any happy life without him? Because you may be sacrifing alot to stay with him. Only you can decide all of this. I really hope you take the time to really mull over your relationship, and make the best decision for yourself. Hope your weekend is better, more peaceful and less anxious. Love Rhea
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