Empty Nests Support Group

Do you belong to a gym? Fitness classes can be a good way to meet people. Also a running or walking group if that is an option. Sometimes stores like "Running Room" have walking or running groups.Otherwise,maybe taking a course in something you think you could enjoy?

For the first time in my life I am lonely and uninspired, so I can relate. However, I'm still trying to adjust, so I have no desire to meet people or do things without my son.

Sign-up to volunteer for something that interests you such as pets, etc. You'll meet a lot of other people who share the same interest. If you like books, join a book group at one of the book stores like Barnes and Noble or Borders or your local library. If you like crafting, jewelry making, scrapbooking, you can sign-up at one of the craft stores to take classes. Check out the local schools for adult activities and classes. Many malls open early for walkers and you can meet people and get in some exercise. Look for local clubs or groups of interest.

Good luck.

Im not sure where you live but the Sierra Club and many Meet Up groups do hikes and walks. Sometimes its easier to talk to others when you are moving and surrounded by beautiful scenery. Some of the Meet Up.Com groups actually are specific to single people but it isnt a one on one situation that can cause one to feel on the spot. I know its hard to learn to be social again after being myself a single mom for almost 6 years and a mom for 29 years years. And a caregiver for 2 elderly parents who died 3 months ago. I was given the same advice to get out and meet people to battle the emptiness. But it is hard when you dont necessarily feel at "neutral" because your'e sad and lonely. I wish you strength. Some grocery stores at after work hours are great places to meet single people too.........

I know two women at my church who met men on eharmony and are now married! I don't know much about the online dating thing, but they were very successful and seem happy. As for me, as hokey as it may sound, my social circle has developed around women I have met at various functions at church.( We attend a very large active church). They even have a group called "Divorce Care".Maybe you could find something like that. My heart goes out to you, I know what loneliness is like.

This is a good time in your life!! How about going to your community college or join a local adult that offers you to meet others in your position.. How about your faith, sometimes this space is a calling to get closer in your spiritual walk... Anyway look up, keep going and you will find the answers, they are all inside you!!

All of these Moms have given some great advice.....the only thing I could add is that the internet dating scene is a tad bit scary and many times you meet people who are looking for something other than companionship....my sister has talked to many online and has been disappointed time and again by them when their real intentions come about......the internet is a wonderful resource to find all of these great ideas these ladies have discussed.....I like the idea of a community college course, there are so many interesting people you can meet when you take a class just for fun....I know that I should take the same advice they have given, and hope to do some of this, but am dealing with some rehab issues with my leg after having an impinged nerve repaired....

I have always thought that a good photography class is something that can be fun and interesting as it is a great way to preserve our lifetime memories....and have fun learning how to do it professionally.......you might be surprised how many contacts come from meeting women, who know single guys.....all great ideas ladies......