Eczema Support Group

I have always tried to avoid getting cold sores (HSV1) because I knew it can cause complications with eczema. (Someone even posted their experience about it here: http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Ecze...

I am in an open relationship with a wonderful man who, when we got together years ago, understood my concern and took it seriously. He also did not have HSV1 and wanted to avoid it anyhow. So I felt safe with him and we have been in a stable non-monogamous relationship.

Recently I was hospitalized for cellulitis which they are pretty sure was caused by bacterial infection due to my eczema. I brought up the fact that I would like to avoid ever being hospitalized again if I can help it and discussed with my doctor whether the HSV1 thing is a valid concern. She agreed that IT IS A VALID CONCERN, and said that antiviral drugs, while not preventative for a primary infection, very effectively prevent transmission. So my partner(s) could take these antivirals and avoid transmitting HSV1 to me. I thought this was great news and brought it up to my partner.

He flatly refused to take a medication for the rest of his life. He says if he gets HSV1 we will just have to break up.

I am heartbroken. I don't know what to do to keep myself safe and also not destroy my life by losing my most important relationship.
Posted on 06/08/12, 10:56 am