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Dieting is the practice of eating (and drinking) in a regulated fashion to achieve a particular, short term objective. There are many, many kinds of diets which fall into several d...

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How do I persuade my parents to let me diet my way? The fact I'm trying to cut a lot of fat out - skimmed milk etc - makes them think I'm going too far. As a result, whenever I visit I pile the weight on again. I'm spina bifida (walking) so can't afford to get too heavy. It's very frustrating.
Posted on 04/24/09, 07:04 pm
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Reply #1 - 04/24/09  8:44pm
" I think your parents would do well to hear it from an third party who is in a position of authority. In other words, your doctor. Ask for an appointment with your doctor and discuss this concern. Then your doctor needs to sit down and devise a plan with you and your parents, or else to suggest and make an appointment with a family dietitian for the three of you. And keep an open mind when this is done, as your body needs healthy fats, although skim milk is a no brainer that every should do except for infants! Let us know how it goes, and wishing you the very best! "
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Reply #2 - 04/25/09  11:23am
" Ah, parents....I have some, I am one. And you know what? For a lot of parents, food = a very tangible way they can show you they love you. I'm going to visit mine in June, and am already in a micro-panic about how I'm going to manage to eat the way I need to, yet not offend. I like the previous poster's idea of getting an authoritative third party involved. My plan is to continue to smile...and refuse the second (and third...)helpings they will be offering. I think keeping it low-key (in my personal family situation), and being thankful for the food/love, without feeling that I need to put every bite of the love in my mouth will be my mantra. That, and a lot of walking...

Good luck to you. I am glad we have parents who care. (And hopefully, as a mom, I'm learning ways to help my own teen daughter have a healthier relationship with food than I did growing up...) "
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Reply #3 - 05/02/09  6:47pm
" Thank you both for your helpful advice. I'm due to see the doc over another issue but I'll mention this to him. Thanks again. "

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