What is Depression Teen
Adolescent depression is a disorder occurring during the teenage years marked by persistent sadness, discouragement, loss of self-worth, and loss of interest in usual activities. ...
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Today was the last day i will get to talk to my cousin because as of a tomorrow the doctors are pulling the plug on him. Everything seems to have gone wrong since the last week of May, I lost my son to a court battle, im losing a cousin i loved dearly and im moving in three years far away from the people i love. All i really have is my best friend that helps me with everything, i feel kind of bad that i dump all my problem on him but he helps more than any thyerapist can and he saves my parents money from sending me too see one.
I wish i could go back in time to see where i went wrong, and try my hardest to fix the problem, but i mainly all started when my parents held me back a year so now i can't graduate with the people i love, i have to graduate with the crazy kids :(, but everything happens for a reason you just have to find it. Posted on 11/08/09, 05:11 pm |
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you didn't do anything wrong. bad things like that happen to lots of people! i think the best way to work out a problem is to talk about it.... im here if you need me! hope things work out ok ehrn you move. ;) 
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Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things. But all you have to remember is that they are going to a better place. Afterward, just think of all the good times you had, and hold on to those. If it makes you feel better, talk to them when you're feeling down or alone. They're not really gone if you don't forget them, they're just long-distance.
Losing a child can be even harder, because you know they're alive and well, but you can't be with them. However, you have to look at both sides? What would their life have been like had they stayed? What will their life be like now that they're away? I'm in no way saying that you would have been a bad parent. But as strong as emotions can be, you have to think of how every possible situation would have affected everyone involved. You said you are glad your parents don't have to spend money on a therapist- that's only about MAYBE $1000 a year, depending on your insurance. Raising a child, however, is SIGNIFICANTLY more than that. Moving is hard, but think about it, when it happens, you'll have a new beginning. You'll be able to be whoever you want because you won't have old tethers. And there's no reason why you would have to lose touch with those who are close to you now. Graduating and being held back, that's yet another difficult thing to deal with. But think about it, at least you'll graduate. And repeating a grade, especially when there is so much trauma going on, is a good idea, so that you have a better chance of retaining the information you have. Just remember, you're not a failure, you're never a failure. You should never feel bad about being able to talk to someone. It can be very hard to find even ONE person you're comfortable talking with, and when you do find them, you can't feel bad about it. Remember, this is a support site, there are a lot of people you can talk to, even if you're not actually divulging major details, anyone who offers to listen is someone you can at least entertain yourself by thinking "Hey, there's someone else". You don't know any of us real well, but we reach out, and we're sincere. BTW, you can talk to me if you need to. Even if you just need to rant, or you need to get your mind off something. Good luck!
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