What is Depression Teen

Adolescent depression is a disorder occurring during the teenage years marked by persistent sadness, discouragement, loss of self-worth, and loss of interest in usual activities. ...

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I've managed to get myself into another mess and it's hurting me. I've got three girls who like me. One of them is taken, which makes things easier, but the other two aren't. The big problem is I have feelings for both of them. One of them is kind of apprehensive about her feelings while the other really likes me. I don't know what to do. I'm scared to put myself to far out there as I'm worried about what will end up happening. I'm scared that if I choose one, she'll end up leaving me and breaking my heart and I just don't want that to happen. I hate how hard this is. I want to put my head through a wall in hopes that will make me forget about everything. I'm starting to lose control. I don't know what I want anymore. I feel like I'm drowning in a sea of indecision. F*ck my life..... :'(
Posted on 11/07/09, 03:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/07/09  4:58pm
" im so srry i should have never told you i like you im srry i hope thimgs get better :( "
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Reply #2 - 11/08/09  11:33am
" Relationships require taking a risk...every relationship- whether romantic or not- are unpredictable because you don't know if the outcome will be good or bad. Try not to worry about the 'what if's' and just think about the right now. Go for whoever you really like and want to be with. Take it slow, and I'm sure something will work out for you :) "
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Reply #3 - 11/08/09  3:14pm
" i do agree with melly. i would say go for the one that isnt so aprhensive. i think it'd be more likely to work out. but remember if it doesnt work out theres "plenty of fish in the sea" youll find the right girl some day. just...well...follow your heart?(so cheezy i know) "
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Reply #4 - 11/08/09  5:21pm
" Well I screwed it all up. I ruined everything. Fuck me :'( "
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Reply #5 - 11/09/09  8:15pm
" Don't say that. Things may seem bad right now but they will look up. I promise. It may just take a little time. And even though you may care for both of these girls you need to think of yourself as well. Maybe you should just remain friends with both of them. It may be harder but also it may be for the best. Friendship doesn't risk losing one or the other and then you wouldn't feel like you're being forced to choose between two people you care for. No one should ever have to make that decision, its just not fair. You seem like a fantastic guy, just take things one step at a time and eventually things work out and that you'll do the right thing, whatever that may be.

I hope that things all turn out for you! I really do.
Keep your chin up. "

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