What is Depression
Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....
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I don't know what to do anymore. I'm in love with a guy and he doesn't know what he wants. He's trying to have some sort of relationship with his ex. He doesn't know what he wants out of that relationship though. He says he likes me and I can tell he does every time we're together. But then everything comes crashing down when I go on facebook and there are pictures of them together. I know I should just not look at her facebook but it comes up on my home page. I hate feeling this way. He makes me feel fantastic and special and important. He understands me and I understand him. I feel like hes the person I'm supposed to be with. But he doesn't know what he wants. I've never let myself be like this with a guy. I don't open up to them. But I opened up to him and he opened up to me. I've been feeling much worse lately. My depression has gotten bad. All I want to do is sleep and I don't want to go to class or do anything else. He's worried about me but I promised him I wouldn't do anything. I just need some advice.
Posted on 11/04/09, 02:11 pm |
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I know it's hard him the person your with still hangs out with his ex, because on some level you feel so self concious and you drive yourself crazy asking questions like, Does he still have feelings for her? Does she have feelings for him? and the list goes on. I've been there and I'm going to tell you what my best friend told me.
Take care of yourself. Don't dwell on her. If he wants to be friends with her, he's going to and the best thing you can do is not udge whatever friendship they have. Focus on you and him, as a couple. Because if your so concerned about their relationship, your just going to push them closer together. You'll need to let him make up his own mind but in the mean time have fun with him. Take care of yourself, surround yourself with friends. Relax, be yourself. That's who he likes and if you just be yourself and let him know you support him things will work themselves out. I hope I was able to help a little bit. *hugs* 
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i agree with lacey...
i'm sorry you're in such pain.
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You're advice really helped. Thank you so much. :)
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