What is Depression
Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....
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Hey all, I guess I am in here cause my GF, who also uses this site, is in a massive HOLE. I do not know what to do. I am going back home for the first time in basically 3 weeks. We needed some time apart, to deal with our issues.
Some of you may know my GF, immissworld, and problems that burden her. She has been sleeping all day, for the last 2 days. I am very worried that she may do something irresposible before I get there. I tried calling her last night to see how she was doing, she did not pick up. Usually if I cal more than 2 or 3 times she will pick up. I called 26 times she picked up on the 27th... which was at Midnight her time. She told me should would not do anything stupid before I got there, would not promise. She kept adding WTF does she have to live for. I told her and always tell her that she has survived 4 experiences that would normally kill a person. Why would she chose to do it on her own? We have been talking about her going on Meds, but due to the suicide, I dont know. I know she is nervous that I am coming back, though EVERYTHING she has seen tells her it is going to be ok. She is reacting due to her past relationships.... not due to her present situation, or our past. I guess you need to know more about me...... I have never harmed her in any manner, the first man in her life that did not. Some of her alters have lied to some of you about me. She judges me unfairly because I have never been addicted to drugs. She tells me I could never know what she feels like. Addiction, Sexual Abuse, Child Abuse of all manner have been part of my life since I was 4. Sorry I am all over the place here... just a little unsettled due to the current situation... I guess I need some input on what to do... my thought is I cant do anything till I get there. Posted on 07/04/09, 10:07 am |
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sounds to me she needs some help would she check herself into the hospital? call her doctor and ask his advice maybe she does need to get on some kind of meds. 
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I think psyc is right - sounds like she needs professional help, you're not letting her down by doing this you're doing what's best for her.
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If you really think she might harm herself please call the police dept. in her city and ask them to check on her. They will...I have done it with someone before who was making threats online, and I happened to have her address so I had the cops go over. She wasn't happy about it but too bad...I felt she needed help.
Thinking of you and your GF and hoping all will work out... (((HUGS)))
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Well... TBH, she is in Therapy with a noted expert on her issues. Thanks to my helping her.
I have asked her if I can go to therapy with her. I have even reminded her just before going in, but as I know we have our OWN agendas when we are in Therapy. The scariest part of all this, I am back in CA... with her.... trying to repair the damage. We were not together more then 12 hours and she started having noticeable physiological reactions when she got close to me, or I touched her. Very much like a 'Panic Attack', sweating, shaking rapid breathing, etc.... She has Therapy tomorrow, I think I will go. Well since she does not feel comfortable driving, or safe. She would never check herself into a Hospital. I would never do that to her either... as for calling the police.... that would be a HUGE mistake. She has issues with the Police and I would not be forgiven, ever.
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sounds like your between a rock and a hard place. be strong and hang in there.
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We are working many things out right now... I have decided to take a few of the things she is trying to control... cause it makes her 'System' crazy if she cannot. I have some history with my Ex wife trying to control every aspect of my life... it would mean the end of the relationship, if it my GF tries to control them too.
We have also both found out more about her 'System'... which is driving me crazy. Instead of the Original 3 we have 5 to handle.
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