What is Depression

Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....

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Someone told me today life is shit!
After thinking about it they're right!! A month or so ago I posted a thread about not having any male friends. Last week I met a really funny chap a new employee at where I work. We hit it off like 2 peas in a pod. Todays plan....go to a movie the out to a karioke bar yep he is a singer then what ever happens happens. Our plans changed...
We buried him this morning...massive stroke! I'm a walking death warrant for all perspective male friends!!!! Either that or the grim reaper has terrible aim. Yes life is shit!!!
Posted on 11/07/09, 03:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/07/09  3:39pm
" OMG, how are you holding up? Don't blame yourself for this, that has nothing to do with you two meeting. Stop that. But, that it so hard to lose someone that you clicked with off the bat. If there is anything I can do to help, lemme know....i'm a good listener.

Winter "
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Reply #2 - 11/07/09  3:39pm
" So sorry for your loss. Hang in there. "
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Reply #3 - 11/07/09  4:00pm
" I got back from the funeral at 10am and been in bed ever since... no motivation whats the point?? "
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Reply #4 - 11/07/09  4:01pm
" yu gos to or i b saded an mi fisheys byts yor botm

sammy mowse "
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Reply #5 - 11/07/09  4:03pm
" You were lucky to have know this person even if for a short time. He was lucky to have know you. "
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Reply #6 - 11/07/09  4:03pm
" Wow that is definitely a very, very shitty situation :S I am really sorry that this happened. Life is really unfair sometimes - and this is surely one of those times.

I'm sure you will find another friend if you keep your head up and keep putting yourself into situation where you will meet them. Try picking a hobby or a sport that you like and joining a club.

A while back both me and my brother were having a really hard time meeting people of our own genders to be friends with and it was getting really frustrating - especially for him. We both love soccer, so we decided to sign up for the individuals team in a local soccer club, which meant we were thrown on a team full of random people. It worked out really well. The first season neither of us met anyone that we really clicked with, but the second season was great! My brother met a guy who is now one of his favourite guys to hit the town with. "
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Reply #7 - 11/07/09  4:05pm
" What was that, scared? lol funny

Let yourself mourn today, get back on your feet later. Take your time with this. They say grieving is a process. Let yourself be sad about it or whatever you are feeling today. This is his day, k?

Winter "
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Reply #8 - 11/07/09  4:38pm
" hmmm not meant to have friends.... "
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Reply #9 - 11/07/09  4:56pm
" im sorry for the loss of your friend. did he have any family, if so how are they taking it? even just meeting a person, when ya hit it off with someone it can seem like you have known them forever. i imagine this will take you a considerable amount of time to work through. but thats to be expected. guess it just goes to show ya never really know whats next. and i have to agree with ya, regarding life too. take care. "
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Reply #10 - 11/07/09  6:06pm
" yes he had a large family 4 kids ranging from 4 years old to 18 years old. They are mortified. It was all I could do not to break down. "

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