What is Depression

Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....

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had a really bad night last night.... so as you know.. or dont know... i have a really big problem with tha way i look. i have no self confidence and i hate my body and everything about how i look. very insecure. then yesterday im online and went to history to find a site that i went to last week and saw that my hubby had been lookin at a buncha pics of this stupid bitch... half naked pics of her ass an shyt.... we got in a huge fight an didnt talk till this mornin shyt i didnt sleep all night. i was just so hurt.... i know alot of people look at other people wen their married or even pornos but im just not ok with that especially trying to deal with this self worth an self image shyt im goin threw and i am just so sad that he thinks she looks good and really sat there lookin at her nasty ass pictures. he ofcourse feels like shyt an i know an believe he isnt an wouldnt cheat but still like i already feel like shyt i hate my body my hair my face my boobs my ass everything an for him to be checkin out some other girl half naked really hurts my and feel like i was makin prgoress
Posted on 07/04/09, 11:07 pm
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Reply #11 - 07/05/09  7:48am
" Aww... don't let that get you down. I took a look in your pics and you are very pretty. I think like everyone else said... almost everyone looks... (yes poor... women DO look at porn, and it's not weird, moron) but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you and think you are beautiful. Maybe you could calmly tell him how it made you feel? *hugs* "
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Reply #12 - 07/05/09  9:52am
" Don't worry about him looking all men do ,and so do the ladies, it's when he stops looking you need to worry . "
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Reply #13 - 07/05/09  11:03am
" Agree with repo & the others who say your husband chose you.

I hope someday soon you realize that you are a beautiful person. "
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Reply #14 - 07/05/09  1:59pm
" thanks for your comments other than one dick head. but thanks i appreciate it. and you guys are right and im really trying towork on this its just i felt like i was starting to finally do goode controlling my actions vers thoughts but its ok ill start over. "
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Reply #15 - 07/05/09  2:53pm
" You can not place the responsibility for your recovery on your husband or any other human being.

You will drive him away with this, people cant just listen to "oh Im so ugly, Im so fat, Im so this that or the other". That gets old fast.

You need intensive therapy, probably for a long time before you will feel good enough about yourself, to be in love or of any use to someone else.

I wish you luck and peace while you contemplate this. "
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Reply #16 - 07/05/09  5:14pm
" i dnt sit aroun sayin shyt. i think it to myself i dnt sit around talkin about myself. your an idiot. i dnt appreciate stupid comments you keep leavin. i no i need help and that what i thought this dam site is about but like jazzy said obviously people just make themselves feel better by talkin shyt "

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