Depression Support Group

Aww, you are very pretty.

I'll offer the same advice to you that I just gave to someone else. You are still young and I hope that you are seeing a therapist to deal with these negative tapes running in your head. I am 42 and have suffered from self loathing for WAY too long. Deal with it now, get professional help, and tell your dumb ass husband to get a clue!

nah i dnt have insurance or money

women dont look at porno...

thats just weird.

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more on topic,
from the following 'my hubby had been lookin at a buncha pics'
who are you trying to impress?
he already married you.
obviously he likes you more.

Oh I'm sorry. There might be ways you can get help, maybe through social services. It's a shame b/c you are lovely and you have an adorable child, I hope that you can believe that someday.

There are low-cost services available to people who don't have insurance. Check with a local university, for example -- the marriage counselor my husband and I were seeing is a professor at a local university and he gave me information to give to my stepdaughter who is an adult and has no insurance. You do need to find help, sweetie...perhaps with your hubby too, if he refuses to stop looking at pics of other women when he knows it upsets you so much.

(((HUGS)))

Yes getting some kind of help is what is gonna help you with your feelings and how you view yourself and that would be great on the other hand I know your hubby knows you are struggling with self image issues and hes looking another lady half naked.WTF..
Men are such ass holes and Im sorry for that, I hope he will change that behavior, cause this is not the time to be viewing other women.
Sorry but hes a fucken Jerk!!!

i don't think he is a jerk. he is human and only looked...didn't touch. i know men who are happily married to women who could be models who still look. hell even my widowed 90 yr old grandpa looks. it is when he doesn't come home or starts talking to one too much that there would be a real issue.

i know you are hurt and i am sorry for that. the problem is though....that if you can't get your self esteem issues under control, you could drive him away. yes, he should be supporting you and telling you how stunning you are to him etc.....but looking is a normal human thing to do. if you flip on him for it or harp on and on about how ugly you feel and how he hurt you with that, he may begin to feel like what support he gives isn't worth the hassle at home.

i am not sure i am explaining this clearly but basically..... you are a pretty girl, he married you, he comes home every night, doesn't cheat, isn't mean to you, supports you in many ways so if the man wants to look once in a while....ONLY look.....then is there really any harm in that? could this be more your issue to work on then something to yell at him for? again, i am sorry you are hurt and i do understand but i would love for you to find the help to get your self esteem up to where you don't care about some half naked girl he may glance at because you are pretty!

and poor, weird or not, i know many women who enjoy porn and things like that. i wish you would learn not to generalize so much and in such a close minded way.

Yeah....Im sure you wont like what i have to say.

Your insecurities lie within yourself.....and for the sake of your marriage...I hope you can do what it takes to get a better self image, weather you are the hottest thing on earth or wether you the homliness thing on earth......it really dosn't matter......and it certianly WON"T or SHOULDN'T matter what we say......

It only matters how you feel about yourself.......It dosn't even matter what your husband thinks...... if you THINK you are hot.....so will he....

as for the porn thing......I wouldn't worry about it too much right now......Not until you have a completely different attidude about yourself.....the minute you do......trust me.........he will...

I bet then....he won't need any porn.

good luck.

I wish you could see yourself the way other people do... you have good hair, flawless skin, a nice figure, and a smile that would light up a room. Oh my gosh girl, you radiate beauty inside AND out.

If you cannot afford therapy to help you see youself as other people do, start telling yourself nice things about yourself even if you don't believe it. Smile at yourself in the mirror. It may sound goofy but what are you telling yourself now? All this I hate me things? Change the words... sooner or later, you will believe the good "I like my" words just as much as you believe the "I hate my" words.

Words are powerful... keep telling someone something over and over again, sooner or later they will believe it. And that includes what you tell yourself.