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Why is that no matter what I do or how hard I try I can not do anything right?
Posted on 07/03/09, 07:07 pm
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Reply #1 - 07/03/09  7:03pm
" this is a little mellow- dramatic dont you think?

I've seen you do things things "right", right here on DS.

So what is it thats really bothering you? "
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Reply #2 - 07/03/09  7:04pm
" cause somedays and sometimes its just like that...its that way with everyone at times.. "
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Reply #3 - 07/03/09  7:07pm
" Lately it just seems like everyone is telling me what I'm doing is mot right.
My therapist said I am not taking her advice or coming up with things to talk about.
My psychiatrist told me I'm not helping myself
I really seem like I don't have friends or I am losing them
My fiance and I are arguing right now.
I really don't talk to me family and don't know what I did wrong.
I try to go to college, but I just I just can't do it.

That's a start. "
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Reply #4 - 07/03/09  7:08pm
" that's ok. hugz
you don't have to do anything right to be loved. xx "
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Reply #5 - 07/03/09  7:10pm
" Thank you, but is something wrong with me. No matter what I do I always hurt people and I'm not trying to. It just happens. "
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Reply #6 - 07/03/09  7:14pm
" These are the speedbumps of life. As you grow older you will look back and this will be trivial. Just hang in there and know that if you beleive what you do is right thats all thaat matters. Others cant hurt you. Its only when YOU react to what they say. Dont let them hurt you. It is your choice.... It will get better "
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Reply #7 - 07/03/09  7:16pm
" "My therapist said I am not taking her advice or coming up with things to talk about."

I thought you said she was seeing you again and that you were doing better with this?


"I really seem like I don't have friends or I am losing them"

Do you give as much support as you get? Are you talking real life friends or just in general? Are you too clingy to them?


"My fiance and I are arguing right now."

No big shock...kick his ass to the curb...one less problem. He treats you like dogshit g/f....there are a blue million men out there...don't just settle...


"I really don't talk to me family and don't know what I did wrong."

You don't talk to them or they don't talk to you? If you think you did something wrong, ask them.


"I try to go to college, but I just I just can't do it."

Why? If the work is too hard try something else or get a tutor or something. "
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Reply #8 - 07/03/09  7:17pm
" I think Kaino just wrapped it up beautifully for you TP. "
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Reply #9 - 07/03/09  7:19pm
" LOL answers to all yur questions from the wise, lovely Kaino :) "
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Reply #10 - 07/03/09  7:20pm
" Do you want to know what I think? I am more than happy to offer my sincere opinion, but you will not likely want to hear it. I will not intentionally disrespect you.....but someone should be completely honest with you at some point.

If you do not care for my opinion, than all I can say is "best of luck" and "big hugs to you". "

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