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I went to get some juice out of the fridge to give to my children, no juice! I want to put some milk in my son's cereal, no milk! I went to put some katchup on my son's plate, no katchup or mustard!
I went to get some cloths for my son to wear, I only have one pair of pants for my son! I went to let my son ride his bike, his helmet isn't here. Where are these items one might ask? In the camper, at my in-laws, locked! Do I have a key? NO! Why? My stbx won't give me one! I have no money to replace these items. I have NO MONEY till he gives me more on the 8th! My stbx husband is out of town, so I can't even go get the stuff from him! He is going to get an ear full today! I am sitting here, with little food in the house and no money to get more! I am sitting here wondering how in the world I will make it through till the divorce is final. Then I am wondering how in the world I will support this house since I can't work right now! I am sitting here worrying about my surgery that is scheduled for July 16th. Praying I will make it through the surgery, and that nothing goes wrong. I am hoping I am healed enough from the total disc replacement surgery in my neck to be able to sit in the court room two weeks later for the hearing deciding if I get alimony, how much child support, and custody issues. I am worrying about loosing custody of my boys, loosing the house etc. I feel like I am going crazy. I just want someone to come through for me for once! Someone to walk me through this, and actually show me some empathy! Once the divorce is final, I am scared to be alone in my condition with my soon to be ex because he will try to take advantage of me and try to take everything. I am scared, and am worried, I am stressed beyond my breaking point! Posted on 07/03/09, 06:07 pm |
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i understand about the whole having to wait until he gives ya money....worrying about if you can make the house payments this month. stuff like that cause that's what i stress about all the time with my ""hubby". we have not even begun to get a divorce yet. hugs and support to you. can you get on food stamps? go to teh food banks at churches stuff like that. 
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I talked to him today about the food missing from the fridge. I did not accuse him of taking it, I just said I was surprised this morning when there was no juice, and then when there was no milk, and then again when there was no katchup or mustard. I said they are in the camper, locked.
He said he didn't get why I would accuse him of taking the stuff. Then he pouted and said "fine, I just won't use anything from the house." Then he said he bought new juice for the camper, didn't take any from the house. He also said he didn't take the katchup or mustard, but if he didn't, then where are they? It doesn't matter, but if he is going to take the stuff to use while camping with the boys then he needs to bring it back when they are done. He is not being responsible about bringing things back and he is not giving himself enough time to make sure he has everything before he comes to drop them off. After the divorce is final he is going to have to get his own stuff, no more of this packing cloths and stuff every time they leave and then not having the things I need for them when they are with me.
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You're so right, he should not be taking the stuff from your place that is there for when YOU need it for yourself or your kids. He can get his own and keep it with him. I'm sorry you have to go through all this. (((HUGS)))
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becky, he should be doing that now. you asked him to move out. it is no longer his home and he no longer has any business there other than picking up and dropping off his kids. tell him where to find the shops and to go there from now on since you do not need to be feeding him off your support money. he is an asshole and i am so glad your divorce will be final soon.
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IF he has no legal right to this stuff go to the Sheriff's office and file a complaint. Then go to Child welfare and get someone there to go with you to get the stuff back.
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Becky so sorry for what you are going through...... Men can be assholes.... or are.... well most..... I have seen if you can get food stamps.... it looks like you meet the criteria..... I was really sick last year and could not work or anything...... And I was able to get food stamps..... contact your local SS department and see if they can help.... also check with some of the churches in your area..... even if you do not attend church with them... they will help you.....
You can and will find people here on DS that have been through or are going through what is happening in your life..... You took the most important step and posted on here..... {{HUGS}} !!SFS!!
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