What is Depression
Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....
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need advisee from u smart DS'ers :)
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ok right so July 4th i wanna hang out with my counsin, me my bro and him are like best friends, my mom says if i wanna hang out i have to sleep over and my other cousin(abuser) leaves there...im not scared or anything but ever since i told i dont think things are the same anymore...idk and im nervous that they will be oo so you told and stuff and u wanna sleeep over!!...idk wat to do :/
I want things to be the same again Posted on 07/03/09, 12:07 am |
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Can't you ask your cousin and brother to stay over at your mom's place? Just a thought. 
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thank you guys..i wont sleep over, my cuz said hes gonna come to the bbq at our moms cuzin's house and we'll go hang out drive sumwhere
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NOPE wouldn't stay there... that's F7cked up....
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Ditto blue. If you have to go armed!! But protect yourself at all cost--just advise from brain injured idiot!!
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ok ! :)
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You were SO right to tell on your abuser...I'm sorry that your mother's view of all this is so screwed up and that she wants to protect him instead of you :-( That just breaks my heart. Thinking of you and wishing you peace (((HUGS)))
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Hi! I understand your feelings completely. I t doesn't seem fair that you should be put in the predicament of having to even make this decision. If your mom is one of the people you told she should not be suggesting you sleep over. It seems she shopuld be protecting you from the abuser and any fall-out from telling. If she is not one of the people you told - make her one! Please don't put yourself in any danger or in an awkward situation because others can't do their part! (no offense at all to your mom)
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Doesn't sound like a good thing to do.....
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Wishing for things "to be the same" doesn't make it so. Things ARE NOT the same. Listen to your inner protector. You already know the answer.
You're simply hoping that someone else will take the responsibility to tell you things WILL BE the same, so when shit goes horribly wrong, you can blame them. Not trying to be mean, but in my life experience, that's how co-dependent people like me think. And your statement seems very much in line with what I've seen other co-dependent people make. My two cents? Don't go.
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