Depression Support Group

Your mom says you have to sleep over? Maybe you should talk to her about this... maybe the cousin you want to hang out with can come spend the night at your house instead?

wait a minute am i understanding this correctly your mom says you have to spend the night if you want to go and she know he has abused you? wow!!!! trying not to be to extreme here, but is your mother fuckin crazy? or does she just not give a shit about you? Honey i am sorry but do you really think you should go over there.......... you know the answer to this!!!!!!!!! WOW

my mom says it was not sexual abuse, just touching, things like this always happen between kids (i was 9 he was 15, 12, he was 18

and last time i checked that is an adult...dont tell the social worker he did that, dont say he was 18, if he goes to jail ur aunt nd grandma will kill themselve, just get over it, ok it happened a long time ago, why do u need a therapist, well cuz no in this fam is helping me...blah blah blah same fight all the time when i try to tlk...look at ur self why wud u hurt urself...sometime i feel soo bad about myself and i wish i could be in a box

oo yea and i consider everyone whose nice to me, and gives me advise a smart DS'er :) u guys are great!!

I'm sorry hun.......but that is just bull crap......just alotta covering up....just terrible, This should have never happend to you...it's a shame, Shame on the adults in your life. I'm sorry.

honey i am sooooo sorry! i am a mother of 3 and i can tell you this is just not acceptable. You need to do what is right for you, and if you feel like you need therapy then please get it, do not go over there and spend the night. I wish you would report it and if your mother does not support you on this then shame on her, I am not saying this to upset you but i can not get my head around your mom telling you this. you know he can be doing this to other children? You can keep another child from going through this. I can tell you people who do this to family will definantly go outside family too. You need to heal from this and going over there and nothing being done about this is not going to help you. please PLEASE stay away from there.

thank you soo much!
im not gonna sleep over there, if thats the only way to hang out then ,o well i guess that too bad! Wow this is nuts! i told my mom if i find out he hurts a lil girl again ima kill him and she laughed...im dead serious ..im epesially scared for my baby cuz shes 6 and my uncle doesnt seem to care that he did it again idk..

Shame on your mother! If you were 9 and he was 10, MAYBE that would be normal kid experimentation. But he was a teenager and you were still in grade school! That's far from normal. And TOUCHING is MOLESTING! Why are so many of our parents living in such clueless denial?!!

I'm sorry, I kind of got off course there. Things will never be the same again, but that isn't your fault. Your cousin chose to change things forever when he violated you. You should be proud of yourself for speaking out about what he did to you, because that takes a lot of guts! And I'm with Mars on the spending the night issue. There's no way you would be safe in the house with your abuser.

Hmmm..I don't see how the awkwardness is your fault. I don't see how you have a big mouth, either. Things won't be the same but that is part of growing up and facing responsibility for one's actions. Your cousin screwed-up big time and you were the one that ended up being hurt by it. Having to face what he did, you really did the right thing. Your cousins will respect you, especially as they grow up and become more mature in dealing with other people.