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Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....
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=( How could she ask me..
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* I just want to say im not here to argue about views on the subject*
My friend found out she was pregnant a few days ago. She has never wanted children but she wasn't takeing any precautions against getting pregnant. She told me at first she was going to get an abortion. I don't belive in abortion unless your physically unable to carry the baby or have been raped. but I wasn't the one who was pregnant , so i figured it wasnt my choice. I did ask her if she considered being a seragte mother or haveing the baby and dropping it off at the hospital but she said She was to proud to just let anyone else have her flesh and blood (She serious thinks she's got golden blood or something) =/ I got a little upset with her answer but i didnt say anything i let it go cause again it's not my child but.. Then she asked me , knowing full force how I feel about killing babies , To help her think of ways to kill her and then help her do them!!! =( I am just so disgusted and distrot over the hole thing that I am haveing a hard concentrating or doing anything else. I didn't say anything to her. But I feel as if she was kind of pushing me to get up set with her ; and i really would like to yell at her for even asking me that. but at the same time I dun want to make it about me and I >.< I just dunno at all. Posted on 01/05/09, 10:01 pm |
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Im seriously hopeing that this will atleast put the notion in her head to use birthcontrol or a condom.
=/ but something tells me that she wont just cause she doesnt like them. So I geuss , my problem now i turning into how to tell her that =/ I can not deal with what she has said to me and unless she gets counsling I can't help support her. 
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perhaps write her an email? some things are easier to say and take without facing the person directly. hope that made sense
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thank you miss Sara that might be able to work. =) its alot better then face to face.
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I agree about the e-mail... since she doesn't NEED counseling because she's perfect the way she is, then she doesn't need friends either. She's going to have to get a little more miserable before she'll ask for real help.
Sorry you have to deal with this hon. Look out for your own mental health here, because you can't fix hers.
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Thank You miss Sacko ,
I think I have a hard time leaving friends cause one i feel a little guilty and two I tend to "Do unto others as you would want them to do to you." thing =/ but I geuss in this case makeing her more miserable and lonely is going to help her in the long run... =/ that statement seems confusing.
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omg! i want to slap her myself! i do not like or want kids and i am extremely vigalent about my birth control. i do not understand ppl who take those risks "cause they don't like it". well tough shit, there is a lot i don't like that we need. she should be steralized so she can't repeat this mistake. i wish you luck but i would have to run away from this girl so i didn't show her my feelings on the subject. that poor baby.
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that is what im trying to do now cause everyone is telling me to not be friends with her
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Wow, this is the most upsetting post I have read in a long time. No, I don't mean trigger,I mean upset for you. My daughter is pregnant and the fact your friend could put this on you is beyond my understanding. As suggested, I would back away and suggest therapy. She needs a pregnancy counselor. Maybe she is just freaking out, and needs time to adjust to the news.
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Having had a kid out of wedlock from an extremely unhealthy situation, this girl nauseates me.
I knoew from the beginning I could not abort, it was not her fault I got knocked up. I did seriously consider adoption tho. I ended up keeping the baby she is 13 now and a pain in my ass lol but I still love her. I am not a great parent but I continue to learn and grow everyday. I do agree with everyone else tho, you should back away and let her be alone with her misery maybe then she will grow up and start learning some form of responsibility. I am pro choice myself but again I have big issues with using abortion as a form of birth control. Sickening!! I had a so called friend many years ago in college who would sleep around and then get pregnant and get an abortion. I got away from her and left her all the pro life shit I could on her door. Ok so I did other things like smear her name, and it wasnt right but this kind of thing infuriates me. My sister has a kid and she hates kids, but she went through with the pregnancy, still felt nothing for her son and now he is being raised by my parents. At least he has a chance. stepping off soap box...
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