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Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....

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Why is it that people that are wrong for me always fall for me?

Reality - one guy engaged to my best friend did. Never told her.
His best friend then did. I didn't want him like that.

Online - fifty something guy fell for me. He was married and well...disgusting but he had a good soul. I found a soulmate in him but not a lover. He never accepted that and that was that.

30-something thought I was the answer to all his prayers for whatever reason. Again...I didn't like him.

Guy same age as me confessed he only keeps going sometimes just for me. Pressure much?

Am I sending out crazy vibes? What the fuck is wrong with me?!
Posted on 11/20/08, 06:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/20/08  6:20pm
" Nothing wrong with you. You are just a likable soul? "
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Reply #2 - 11/20/08  6:21pm
" If I'm that likeable why am I sat in here on a thursday night chatting you guys (no offense). Just a TAD pissed off at this right now. "
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Reply #3 - 11/20/08  6:24pm
" story of my life....just had to turn johnny depp away coz im having a bad hair day...:) "
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Reply #4 - 11/20/08  6:25pm
" LMFAO if only that was the case!!!! I sound awfully ungrateful but it's like people keep putting their feelings onto me. I feel responsible when I can't return the affection. the last guy I don't know if I do because we haven't met just yet. But when someone says they basically live for you some days what the fuck do you do?! "
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Reply #5 - 11/20/08  6:27pm
" this is one problem I wish I had......hehe like said, you have a lovable soul. Just kidding don't want this problem, suggest you set you sites a little higher and converse with those who strike your fancy, and, of course, NOT MARRIED. "
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Reply #6 - 11/20/08  6:27pm
" you gotta meet a lot of frogs before you meet a prince.......hugs xx "
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Reply #7 - 11/20/08  6:29pm
" I never went romantically with any of these people except the last one that's the funny thing. The married person I had no idea where that was going until he just came out with it. Nor the engaged person. God I sound like a whore. You know I never even kissed any of these people or insinuated with any again but the last that I would :/ "
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Reply #8 - 11/20/08  6:29pm
" you must have a good ora about you... people are attracted to that, most of the time people who are lacking in some way.. "
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Reply #9 - 11/20/08  6:37pm
" I'd say that Unsound hit it square on; I've always found you to be a likable person. But you are about 20 years too young for me; besides I'm taken!

I'd say be flattered if it was not clear that you find it a bit troubling. But unless you are really giving them the come on without knowing it my guess is that these guys are seeing things that are not there.

Not to worry, people have been misreading clues almost as long as there have been clues to misread! "
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Reply #10 - 11/20/08  6:58pm
" mabey your very attractive and guys just naturally fall for you. "

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