Depression Support Group

You don't know my bro lol! Manic-depressive, self-obsessed petrol-head with a Phd in Biology. What a catch, hey!

are you seeing a therapist? or a pdoc? are you doing anything to improve how you see you? nothing will change till you start to feel like you are worth it changing. i didn't believe that but i didn't find my hubby till i was 29 and had finally started to like me for me. i still have rough days but it really was when i started to see that i had tons to offer the world that he fell into my lap basically. we have been happy for 3 years now....two of those happily married. i do really feel for you but i also see very similar posts from you most days and am just wondering if you are seeking help to change these things in your life for the better?

yes i have tried therapists havent found right one yet
sorry

sometimes im just asking for advice when i post things too.

and i am working at using some of they advice that im getting
thank you all

I do understand, I am 53, and don't have the time you have left to find the right person if that is what you want. It takes yrs to build a relationdhip, you have that and will find that. You won't always be in this lonely place in your life, I am much older and don't plan to be in it myself Hun.

Take care sweetheart, there are better days ahead.
Hug to you

ok...that is good then. i am not attacking. i am just wondering and hoping you find the best for you hun. i don't want you to stop asking these things cause we all need to vent and get advice. i just know it can change from my own experiences and i really do hope it does for you too. hugs hun!

im 35,still waiting for my first kiss,but i still keep hoping,you have to

even when you have children, grand children, husband, and family you can feel lonely. so its not just you. i think we all have our lonely times. and all have our dark times too. but keep going, dont let it take over your life. go out to the mall and people watch. that makes me feel less lonely. or if you dont have a mall go where people gather and watch them. its amusing i think. and then maybe you will meet someone you might have a common interest with. and make a friend. its not that but hard. go to support groups. i dont know where you live and you might find someone like yourself. good luck

I understand just what you are going through. I was there - if you don't mind a suggestion from a 71 year old - this worked for me. There must be something that you are interested in - find a group in your area and join - Don't go in looking for a man - it never works - Just put on the "ouside face" and have some fun.
Bobbi