What is Depression

Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....

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just a question...i need some perspective. someone that i care about A LOT just deleted me from their friend list and sent me a generic PM about "why" they did it. they sent the same PM to a bunch of other people. i'm so confused...i don't know what i did wrong. this really hurts and i don't know what to do. how can someone just be deleted from your life? i could never do that...
Posted on 06/11/08, 02:06 pm
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Reply #1 - 06/11/08  2:20pm
" It probly wasent u this person is prob just having a relly hard time. We seem to push away the people clostest to us when we need them the most. Sorry I know it sucks. "
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Reply #2 - 06/11/08  2:21pm
" I have to admit that I have delteed all my friends, when I am in a manic episode. It usually passes, or when I get hurt, I do the same thing! Im sorry this happened. Huge hugs! "
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Reply #3 - 06/11/08  2:21pm
" some people just don't like getting friends list overloaded. and did they really delete you? cuz i got a message like that from someone saying they were deleting people and when i wrote back she was like "oh i didn't delete you, i was just sending that message out to everyone to let them know i was trimming down the friends list" taking them off friends lists isn't cutting you out of their life honey, maybe they just felt overwhelmed with so many people on there that they couldn't keep up with everything. I really honestly think it has nothing personal to do with you but something person to do with them. don't take it harsh babydoll...((((((HUGS))))))))))) "
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Reply #4 - 06/11/08  2:22pm
" Some people do it for attention and some do it just to see who notices. I don't understand why they feel the need to do this. "
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Reply #5 - 06/11/08  2:24pm
" No, they really deleted me...and i thought we were good friends. i love this person like family...and it hurts. i wish i could just say oh well...but i can't. i don't understand "
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Reply #6 - 06/11/08  2:24pm
" It happens a lot here hon. Sometimes, for me, I always have a hard time telling people no so I get a list of folks and if I feel overwhelmed I will cut the list to people I really only talk with. Sometimes I get deleted from others. Sometimes people have a *moment* and delete a bunch then re-add them again later....I figure whatever.....don't let it upset you much hon, it probably won't be the last time it happens here. "
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Reply #7 - 06/11/08  2:29pm
" It can be upsetting but just try to remember that everyone here has issues - many have trust issues so if there is anything that is "out of kilter" then they may feel the need to do a bit of purging. Also sometimes it gets overwhelming to try to keep up with everyone on our friends list. I am quite certain it is nothing you did. Just give it time. "
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Reply #8 - 06/11/08  2:36pm
" i'm just gonna go...may be back later. i'm just not in the frame of mind to be here now. thanks everyone "

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