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So today I go meet a EAP Therapist ....Even tho my anger has let up a tad I believe that was from the major blow out I had Wednesday..Also my father is the exact same way ,,,,,in his younger years he had rage fits when things did not go his way ,,,,,,Makes me think its maybe be in my genes . I am still looking on a solution for my broken coffee mug :( .. I dont know if my husband will be able to join me since this is the first visit ... But I think he needs to go just in case ... Since he can be the one to trigger my rages.
I get to have dinner with my parents ..... NOTE TO SELF .... Work issues WILL NOT be discussed ...... This whole damn mess started because my Dad ( 72) was telling me to quit my job or grow some balls and tell them they are making me eat shit sammiches ..... Yea I could see that going over with the VP Like a turd in a swimming pool ..... That screaming match lasted over a hour I am dealing with the pressures from work a bit better after talking to a person that can help my get some of the pressure off that the VP is trying to add ..... I guess I SHOULD feel honored that a VP has that kind on confidence in my ability ,,,,, I tend not to see it .... But I have very low self esteem as it is. It has been ..... And finally it is the WEEKEND !!!!!! I will be able to make more bracelets and clay charms that I just love to do ..... In fact since the weather is still so damn hot ( no rain) and gas prices have once again topped at 4 a gallon I will be content to sitting in the house and crafting.... And spending time wif u guys .... Wish me luck tonite ... And you all have a WONDERFUL Friday Posted on 08/03/12, 07:36 am |
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Maybe you lash out at your husband because he is the safest. You can't lash out at work, I imagine it is hard to lash out at such an opinionated father. So, that leaves your husband to get the anger out? I hope your therapy and your meal goes well for you. My mom and I were talking about getting me a hobby yesterday. I think I will take up knitting. Even if I can't make certain things, I can make a hell of a long blanket. Love ya.
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Hugs Dewy, I can understand your struggles with rage it's a I deal with mine .
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So glad to see you Dewy! I hope the new therapist works out well for you. Having a crafty weekend sounds great. I need to start doing crafts again. It helps me feel more useful. Sorry to hear about your work stress. (((((Sending you giant monkey hugs)))))
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peaceful day Dewyness! I am proud of you for taking steps, and I do NOT mean that is a condescending way.
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IN....I do not mean that IN a condescending way. :)
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Good luck tonight - Hugs
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Good Luck, let us know how you make out. Take care of yourself.
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Well, special wishes to you too, I hope all goes well and I hope you have a wonderful weekend as well. Sure wish you could teach me how to craft. In the 3 years that my grandchildren lived with me, I saved every piece of their homework, but I don't know what to do with it now. I wanted to make them a special scrapbook. I hope your hubby can go in with you. I don't see why not. Maybe not the first visit, but the second?
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Missed the appt coz neither my husband or me could find the darn place .Who has a appointment at 6:45 lord ... called and got the answering machine ... I guess she was in a session. So She called back later like 30 minutes and I have a reschedule for Tuesday which is fine it means I get out of work a half hour early .....
Max this weather sure does play on ones moods..... It seems like every-time they call for rain my little town gets NADA ..... Who would have thought that I would be so missing the rain and its gentle patter on my window.... Its been May since we have really got anything that even remotely seemed like a rain shower .......ZAZA I know your right about the lashing out at him He is the safest .... But its not fair to him :( then I get all depressed because I was such a demon to him .... Daisy I never take anything you say as condescending :) luv you I did go to Michael's and get some really cool beads ,,(Shop Therapy) ,,,, I think I need to start making the bracelets before I buy more beads LOL ... Thank you guys for all the support in this ..... I really am ready I think to start working on me Between the Menopause (which I think has a big impact on my anger) and as Max said the depressing heat .... the stress at work ,,, It is time that I faced the fact that I can not manage this alone .... So glad I have you guys ... So called "Normal" people just don't get it I guess
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Maybe you lash out at your husband because he is the safest. You can't lash out at work, I imagine it is hard to lash out at such an opinionated father. So, that leaves your husband to get the anger out? I

