Depression Support Group

Would you be willing to put up a picture of yourself for your Avatar? I have a strong feeling that you are good looking and I would like to see you prove me wrong. I don't think you can

OK I am going to ask you something right off.

Do the women you ask out know that you drink and drug? If so, that may be a huge reason they change their mind, I know I would. Actually, I would just say no to someone up front if I knew about their drinking and drugging,

That said, what they are doing by not answering the phone, blowing you off, etc is bullshit and they have no manners. Fuck them. Some women are asses.

As far as considering suicide, drinking and drugging are stupid things to do just because you feel no one wants you. I've been kicked to the curb in 3 out of 4 relationships. I've not been with anyone (for the most part) in 3 years. That doesn't mean it won't happen and none of them are worth offing yourself over. No woman or man is worth all that....NONE. The fact that I don't have anyone or feel like no one wants me (been there too) sucks, but it's not worth putting poison in your body or wanting to die. YOU are worth something, why do you need conformation from some broad to be worthy? Fuck that dude, you are worthy with or without anyone.

Personally, I would prefer being an old woman with no one as opposed to settling or poisoning myself with crap or offing myself.

Hang in there....you are worth more than you think xx

HEY SUNSHINE!!!! FOR ONE IT'S NOT ALL WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MEN TO CAN LIE....I FEEL THAT YOU HAVENT BEEN TOTALLY HONEST HERE WITH YOURSELF!!!! YOUR HIDEING BEHIND THOSE DRUGS AND DRINKING THEY BECOME YOUR SHEILD I FEAR...AND BE IT MALE/FEMALE THERE REALLY ISNT ANYTHING SEXY IN SEEING SOMEONE PISSED OR ON A HEAD SPIN...SO ITS NOTHING AT ALL ABOUT YOUR LOOKS HERE ...ITS THE WAY THAT THESE DRUGS N DRINKING MAKE YOU BELIEVE [ THINK ACT BEHAVE ] TRY AND SEE IF YOU CAN COME OF THESE!!! FIRSTLY FOR YOURSELF...SECONDLY YOU MAY FIND THEN THAT YOUR VERY DATEABLE ...I BET LIKE GRAMYBEAR SAID YOUR AN GOODLOOKING DUDE!!!] AND YOU KNOW WHAT [BEAUTY IS SKIN-DEEP!!! IT'S IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER ]... I SO WISH YOU MUCH LUCK PEACE AND HAPPINESS MY FRIEND ON SO MANY LEVELS. XO DC

Very interesting posting, here is one from the female perspective:

http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Depr...

Perhaps you two can talk and learn from each other!

I think you're giving more credit than it deserves. The sexiest thing to both men AND women is confidence. Once you stop basing your worth on what random flakey women with no manners think of you, they'll probably come flocking to your door - then you can smile confidently and slam the door...'cause you'll have higher caliber women on your dating calendar.

Honestly........those are.really bad reasons to destroy yourself.......I seriously wish I hadn't spent my twenties ruining my liife for other people.

I'm.with reply #2

i'm an honest woman....just sayin
Hugs XO

I agree with everyone else. As long as you abuse drugs and alcohol you have nothing to offer a relationship. You have to get a grip on you, learn who you are and then you will have something to offer to the opposite sex. I would start with AA, NA or a therapist. Hell maybe all three at one time will help you find your true self. Good luck to you.

Now I see a little bit more of what is going on. I don't think it has anything to do with your looks. I don't know too many women that want to go out with a man who is drinking and drugging and feels suicidal all the time. What do you think is going to happen if you actually try going out with one of the ladies cold sober? I would like to see how that date would go and how you feel after. I don't think these women are seeing you as an ugly human being, they find the alcohol and drugs ugly. Do you think that could be the reason?

I'd like to know what goes on between the time that these women agree to the date, and when the date is supposed to occur. If you call them on the phone while drunk or stoned, that could be a deal breaker.

Most drinkers are guilty of drunk dialing from one time to another. Even the best of friends hate that. Could this be the case?