Depression Support Group

can you talk to your husband? explain your son has been asking questions and you want to giveconsistent answers?

I can speak on personal experience, some time I don't say anything either because I don't want to add more weight onto those around me than the one they already have, or because even if I were to say something I know any respond or feedback would not be...

It sounds like your husband is still having problems grieving and coming to terms with his loss. Unfortunately, this isn't your burden to bear. It is however effecting you and your son. Your H needs to be made aware of the effects this is having on you and the potential harm it could cause to your relationship. Did he go through any kind of grief counseling?

I've lost several, dear close loved ones in the last several years, most recently, my mother. I never grieved properly - for any of them. And the baggage has weighed me down immensely. I encourage you to be open and honest with your husband. Explain your feelings, be truthful. Fear can be a powerful force that keeps us in situations that can eventually turn unhealthy. It's vital that your H grieve completely and in a healthy manner. And that you are open about your feelings. Best of luck.

no he wont go to grief counseling and idk what to do