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FUCKING BITCHES NEED STITCHES
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Ok, so to premise the story. It is me and 4 other girls in this apartment of a 3 story dorm house owned by the school. We have an RA, but they live on the other floor and are expected to still govern the whole house.

Firstly, these are the same groups of fucks that I live with that since Ive been here and bought stuff for the house bathroom, have thrown whatever i bought in the trash without asking me first.

Nice intro.

Now, for the past week there has been a pile of dishes in the sink growing so large you cannot CLEAN anything in the sink. In this mess, my dishes that are left consist of one pan. A single, little lonesome pan. This one girl, well call her BITCH for confidentiality, wakes me up [ive been sick] and tells me to clean the pan. I tell her back that there is no room to clean the pan, and when the other dishes are clean and there is room I will do it. So then BITCH goes and puts this pan, which does not belong to either me or her [my house shares dishes and we happened to not have bought that one] out on the porch to sit in the rain and collect leaves for the past couple days. STILL expects me to clean it after that. Well, sorry, Im responsible for getting food off of cookware, NOT sanitizing dishes that have been outside in the rain and the dirt for days. Theyre response? "It will be fine if you bleach it."

So, BITCH comes along and calls a floor meeting [btw, BITCH is not an RA, just a tenant like the rest of us] and leads the meeting [which, since i wanted to punch her lights out already, i tried to just make jokes and say nothing lucky her] and we lightheartedly talk about all the ways we could keep tidy and stuff.

SO I wake up this morning, and there are about 8 notes plastered around the apartment with things like "EXAMPLE OF A MESS - WHOSE TOOLS ARE THESE!?" "THERES SHIT IN THE KITCHEN CLEAN IT UP" and oh the best two :
[I have 2 dishes in the sink and there are a total of about 10 mind you]
ON MY DOOR : "WHY THE FUCK ARE YOUR DISHES STILL IN THE SINK - WE HAD A CHAT ABOUT THIS YESTERDAY AND IT WAS ABOUT YOU TOO KTHX"
and to go SO well with that one the one that BITCH left on her own door:
"IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ANY OF THESE NOTES SEE BITCH. IF THEY SOUND BITCHY, THEYRE MEANT TO BE:"

And I am FUCKING PISSED. I called the RA and she said to take pictures so if they move it there is evidence. Shes going to come down in about an hour to look at things.

Ive had it with this place. Im moving out, getting an apartment and finishing out the year on my own.
Posted on 10/28/09, 10:10 am
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Reply #1 - 10/28/09  5:57pm
" TwilightStar,
It is easy to see that you are very angry not only with the way this situation unfolded but also at the person that caused all the crap. I too have had impossible roommates that caused me a lot of stress. I feel your pain but I will say that the thought of moving out on your own may be a very good suggestion but you did say you only had a year left anyway. Is it worth it financially? I’m in the military and for the first couple years in I had about 400 dorm mates and our commons area was always repulsive. I ended up buying my own hot burner, a simple set of pans and some paper plates and kept them in my room. This way I could never be blamed for any mess made in the commons area. You might want to think about this one before you react. Pick your battles carefully and don’t burn any bridges. If you do decide to move out make sure you think it all the way through. Dont loose your motivation as to why you are in college in the first place. I hate to say it but you need to know how to take the good with the bad and find a way around it. "
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Reply #2 - 11/04/09  12:43pm
" wow if i was living with people i hated as much as that i would have to leave "

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