Cocaine Addiction & Recovery Support Group

Hi Hunter
Yes Cocaine did play a big part in my sex Life a part that I so much want to forget. I don't understand why it has that effect on some people but it did with all the people I hang around with. I'm very thankful that it did not effect my health in any way so far. it is one more reason for me to stay far away from it and that part of my past.

It effected mine because I would have sex with anyone male or female to get one more. Thamk God I didnt get any deadly diseases because of my actions, be careful.

Thank you for your comments, I am glad to know I am not alone in this and jwall I too have been very fortunate not to have contracted any thing from this behavior. Now that that I am recovering from my coke addiction, I don't take as many chances as before but my sexual behavior hasn't change much. I am sort of confused about all this!

Am I Bi or not? Do I have a sexual addiction? Is there true relational happiness with both sexes at once. ARRRG

I think I am starting to realize that i am just a slut lol..

Addiction is a serious issue. Over doing anything is only a symptom of other problems, has little to do with what you think it is.

If your really serious, get into the solution, we all know how to drink, use drugs and how to be sleezy, its really something we stress discussed with a sponsor not the world. Having a healthy relationship clean and sober now that is something worth pursuing.

Hunter, Sex and Cocaine went hand in hand for me. It was all about cruising for anonymous partners when I was high....seeking always seeking that ultimate orgasium. Being high accentuated feelings, at least that's what I thought, but what it really did was numb me from any chance of intimacy. In sobriety I have had to learn thru my failings that the quick fix of a one night stand doesn't help me be the man I want to be today. I have 6 years clean and sober, sober sex now is about having a connection with the man I'm with, being physically attacted to him and mentally attracted to him. This requires me putting myself on the line with letting them get to know me.....as an addict this is very scary, but the payoff is awesome.

Thank you Dallas, that makes sense to me and where I was at and still struggling with. I Haven't used for a quite a while but the residual behavior wants to go on..I just desire healthy meaninful relationships now and am tryig to get there.

what i have come to understad is that animalistic behaviors go along with substance use. if the behaviors continue once you become clean for awhile, then maybe you need to dig deep inside and figure out if you just enjoy sport f*&^king. I know many people that do because they are unable to look at themselves, and they think sex will help solve their life woes.

If you are interested in men, allow the women in your life to know, and vise versa. you will cause harm not just to yourself, but to all involved parties. Recovery is about growing up, and not being the person you were in active addiction!

just some insight!