What is Cocaine Addiction
Cocaine addiction is the excessive intake of cocaine, and can result in physiological damage, lethargy, depression, or a potentially fatal overdose. Though the immediate craving to...
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My ex fiance who i split up with almost a year ago is deliberately trying to hurt me, he is back with an ex of his, i have been doing so well at moving on but he knocks me down so much.
I pass him alot because we live near each other but he has requested some of my friends on facebook, they are not close friends but they are still my friends & not his, he swaps his profile picture every few days of him with her then comments on my friends status so i can see, if he spots me driving he stands out near the road so i can see him, its like he wants to hurt me. I have blocked him now but he will continue to try to hurt me some how. It is so out of character, he used to be so considerate, he never had it in him to hurt even a fly before his addiction. He was so different then. Can cocaine do this to him? he is a heavy daily iser even though you couldnt tell if you seen him, he goes to work every day still. I just cant believe how much he tries to still hurt me now, iv done nothing to him, he left because he said he didnt want to take me down with him, i still feel like he is yaking me down with him, i never contact him or even acknowledge him. He has no idea how much it still hurts, does cocaine change someone that much to make them so mean even to those who were closest to them? Posted on 10/15/09, 08:10 pm |
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Mademoiselle loumc,
The internet's social networking sites are an addicts' new playground for the manipulation of acquaintances and lovers. I've observed myspace and facebook used to bait and lure prior relationships back into codependency if not all out drug partnership. False portrayal and faking emotional longings are tools of the trade to entice engagement and rekindle dangerous liasons. The advanced user morphs into quite a bit the bastard as selfishness and self righteousness grow to rule. They adopt the view of others that, "if you're not with them, then you're against them". Opinions about prior relationships twist in the cocaine wind and become dehumanized, facilitating an attitude of usury and domination toward the ex friend or lover. Deliberate attempts to infiltrate into other friendships and violate privacy space is a way to control. And, it may be a cruel thing to say, but the active user is not quite human, rather, exists as a self serving predator, dangerous to all around. Like a walking virus, as the disease matures, it strives to infect. I'm 3 years away from that ghoulish life, this month. Being truly grateful, the best signpost toward successful recovery! Thanks lou-lou, for that awareness. Good tidings. 
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Thankyou for your reply meemomo, now i understand his behaviour, you couldnt have worded it better!
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Hi Loumc Yes cocaine can and will do this to a person. My addvice to you is just look the other way and Keep Up the Good work don't let anyone try to pull you down with them they love to see other's hurting along with them. I have a friend (that I hold on to) that hates the fact that I have been able to walk away from my using Days and the more I am clean and sober the more it up sets him. He would love to see me fall and maybe this is what Your ex is driving for with You.
You have a new and better Life now as I do so hold on to what you have and in time he will see what he is trying to do to You will not work and it will stop. Good Luck and be Strong.
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